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lillianlane
Good for you!! Be strong
posted by
TIMMYTALES
on June 5, 2010 at 3:50 PM
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it takes courage to walk that first step but keep going girl...you have one life and your son needs your strength. Good luck to you and to your husband who hopefully will grow up and see what is important
posted by
spiderfly
on June 5, 2010 at 3:47 PM
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Victimhood
I'm sorry to say this but you sound like you are casting yourself as a victim in all of this. I think it would be great for you to tap into your personal power. Living with the kind of person you are with and letting his behaviour rule your life is not the way. Time to get help, get powered up and get out. Who knows what fantastic life is waiting for you outside all of this drama? As for your son, the longer he is experiencing this toxic relationship at such close quarters, the worse his childhood's gonna be. Do you want to create another alcoholic abandoner?
Sorry if I'm overstepping - its just that sometimes the truth is better from a disembodied voice in space than a family member or friend who don't want to hurt you.
posted by
GEOS_Watch
on January 31, 2010 at 3:58 PM
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I have a twisted past with and alcoholic and I have alcoholic parents. It's sad and destructive. I'm sorry to hear you're going through this and proud of you for not caving when he calls, out of fear of being single. It took me a long time to be strong enough to stand on my own two feet....I'm SO grateful I did though. Good luck to you!
posted by
vulnerable
on January 28, 2010 at 7:00 AM
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Re:
yes I have and you are absolutely right. that"s why I'm writing this story because there absolutely is something much greater out there. all the best:)
posted by
LillianLane
on January 27, 2010 at 10:32 PM
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I was married to an alcoholic! They are always the victim, demeaning others and so selfish! For me a drunk is a drunk and one is better off without them! They cause pain and all their innuendo is just garbage! I hope you can move on and find someone who is nurturing! sam
posted by
sam444
on January 27, 2010 at 4:02 AM
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married to any AH is same ... it doesn't matter whether he is a rock star
or not...........if he is an AH.....he is going to be...........always same, so get out and get ur life together, the more you wait, the more you make damage in ur life......
posted by
Star5_
on January 26, 2010 at 3:56 PM
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