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I hope that you and Bud are both having good days.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 24, 2010 at 1:17 PM
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T Enjoy the pit now and feel peace about the future. I know that they an be quite cute , friendly, and loving. BC-A, Bill’s RJLst
posted by
BC-A
on January 23, 2010 at 5:36 AM
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I am very sorry for you and Bud. I know how much this dog count for you. it is never easy to take such a decision but in this case, I'll say your right.
posted by
auslander
on January 21, 2010 at 4:26 PM
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I have been a Vet. tech for almost 30 years. Thank you for making such a selfless choice. I think you are showing the greatest kind of love. God Bless You.
posted by
ravenmarie
on January 20, 2010 at 11:38 PM
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adnohr
I was touched. It is a story of love, and what a beauty it is! Sam is right. I'll have to read through all the others, bottom to top. Excellent writing, too
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posted by
anib
on January 18, 2010 at 10:52 PM
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Food4thought, thank you
That's what we'll do. And believe me, for the moment, he is still very much BUD! Love that mutt!
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 3:39 PM
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adnohr...
When I think back to your first stories of Bud, I have to wipe a tear from my eye. I think is is best to let Bud be Bud for as long as he can. Stay strong.
posted by
food4thought
on January 17, 2010 at 12:02 PM
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Re: I know what this means and I was faced with similar options when it came to
I guess it's part of life, isn't it Straighforward? Not the easiest part, but we deal with it when we have to. I'm sorry for your loss, and thanks for your kind words.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:45 AM
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Thanks Corncrake
It's the right perspective - he doesn't know, and will enjoy himself until the last possible moment. Knowing that DOES help.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:44 AM
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Thank you, Wiley
I hope I have no more of this kind of decision to make anytime soon.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:41 AM
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You are right, Nautikos
Quality is more important. I just wish he could choose for himself. But that isn't going to happen, is it? So I live with my decision. Thanks for the support.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:39 AM
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TAPS, I needed to hear those words. Thank you!
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:36 AM
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Re: A tough call, but I would have made the same....enjoy and love him!
Thanks Ariala - exactly what I am doing. And he's loving every minute of it!
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:35 AM
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Re: I think you're doing absolutely the right thing
Thank you, Malcolm. And I will enjoy every moment. That mutt has never been so spoiled and, being Bud, is taking full advantage of it, LOL.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:34 AM
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Thank you, Elyse. Somehow I knew you would.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:33 AM
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I'll surely give him your kiss too, Sam
I'll try to send you a picture (I'm a dud when it comes to those things). Thank you ever so much for promoting Bud's story. I want as many people as possible to love him!!
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:32 AM
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Re: this is so touching
It helps to know he is not aware (I think) of what is happening yet. My decision, in part, was knowing that he would be confused with the pain and the restrictions of his activity if he had the operation - he wouldn't realize what it meant. He would only feel the pain. Hearing the probable results - it isn't worth it for either of us. Thank you, Tzippy.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:30 AM
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It took much information from experts
and much soul searching, Elinjo. I don't want to have to make many decisions like this. Thank you for your comment.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:25 AM
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Re: Isn't it sad that dogs don't have a lifespan equal to our own?
I agree, northsage. It would be easier all around. Thank you for caring.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:23 AM
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Thank you, Justi.
When we make decisions such as these, it's helpful to know that it is probably the right one, which is the minimum of suffering...for us all.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:19 AM
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Your comment was worth much to me, Darson
My sister DID refuse treatment, choosing quality over quantity. I wa angry about it at the time. Remembering it influenced my decision for Bud, and your comment here helped.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:16 AM
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Re: Good decision.
Thanks, Pat. It was kind of a forced decision - like you said, horrid alternatives.
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:12 AM
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Re: I shed a little tear while I read this and I applaude your brave attitude.
Thanks, Kabu - I know Bud would love a hug from you. He is a typical male, lol!
posted by
adnohr
on January 17, 2010 at 7:11 AM
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I know what this means and I was faced with similar options when it came to
a near and dear one, and she and i had to take a call on this together.
posted by
Straightforward
on January 17, 2010 at 7:01 AM
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Bud
I think one has to look at this from the pets kind of view, Bud is oblivious to what is happening, this is a state of mind that many would wish for in the same circumstances.
You have the power to let him go to sleep when things change. I know its hard I let my own dog die naturally before I would call a vet, but he ate a meal until the last day. I know the feeling.
posted by
C_C_T
on January 17, 2010 at 3:27 AM
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adnohr
I am sorry for your Bud and for his 'mum' but he is so fortunate to have such a loving and caring mum that can make those terrible life decision that just have to be made. God less you my friend.
posted by
WileyJohn
on January 16, 2010 at 9:05 PM
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adnohr
It's very sad, but I'm convinced you definitely made the right decision. The quality of his life is more important than its length, especially if lengthening it brings just more pain and suffering. In the end, making things as easy as possible for them and showing them that we love them is the best thing we can do for our aging pets...
posted by
Nautikos
on January 16, 2010 at 5:43 PM
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If I were Bud, and understood, I would want you to make that choice for me.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 16, 2010 at 5:35 PM
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A tough call, but I would have made the same....enjoy and love him!
posted by
Ariala
on January 16, 2010 at 1:21 PM
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I think you're doing absolutely the right thing
We lost one of our cats just before we moved house. Her kidneys had failed completely and we asked the vet to send her to a better place; previously we'd been offered an operation but I think the trauma would have been too much and may have hastened things. I really do know what you're going through - just enjoy every moment to come.
posted by
malcolm
on January 16, 2010 at 12:07 PM
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Elyse (I understand)
posted by
elysianfields
on January 16, 2010 at 10:33 AM
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I fully understand, but it doesn't stop the tears. I love Bud, that is why I got the idea to start the story again! It was about your excellent writing,too! You must kiss him on the forehead for me, PLEASE! Would you send me a picture one day!? sam
posted by
sam444
on January 16, 2010 at 9:09 AM
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this is so touching
I would enjoy him as much as possible, just like you are doing
posted by
Tzippy
on January 16, 2010 at 8:33 AM
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This sounds such a wise and humane decision, but it must have been a very heart-rending one to take.
posted by
elinjo
on January 16, 2010 at 8:12 AM
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Isn't it sad that dogs don't have a lifespan equal to our own?
posted by
northsage_45
on January 16, 2010 at 8:06 AM
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This is so unselfish of you. My daughter just went through this with a big clumsy lovable boxer of about 10 and cancer. They chose the same route, it hurt but not as long or as deeply as it would to watch the pain that you could do nothing about. Bless you.
posted by
Justi
on January 16, 2010 at 7:30 AM
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That, in my opinion, speaks volumes of you. Our cousin was diagnosed with cancer. He was a 34 year old married man with several children. He tried every aggressive treatment known to man, money was no object. And he was sick, sick, sick for the four months he had from diagnoses till death. At the end, he told his mother he would've loved to have spent those months enjoying his family, versus trying to fight off the chemo's side effects. If he had it to do over, he would've managed the pain, and let nature take it's course. You can't fault him for trying, but in retrospect he would have gone for quality of life, too. For what that's worth.
posted by
Darson
on January 16, 2010 at 7:10 AM
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Good decision.
(horrible alternatives) I wish you both joy and peace.
posted by
Pat_B
on January 16, 2010 at 6:28 AM
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I shed a little tear while I read this and I applaude your brave attitude.
and although it's heart rending what good and caring advice you have been given. Bud wouldn't enjoy a life of pain...he's happy at present and each day is a treasure. You can take the photos and yes spoil him rotten have fun together .......I just want to give you a big hug. ....and Bud too.
posted by
Kabu
on January 16, 2010 at 6:15 AM
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