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Pat-B, I had to laugh at your last sentence too. I'm still smiling!

posted by adnohr on January 15, 2010 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

Pat
A beautiful piece of nostalgia, Pat.  But I don't think it is emotion that is causing the tears to run down my cheeks - I think it has more to do with the last sentence.  Thank you for that.

posted by johnmacnab on January 15, 2010 at 11:28 AM | link to this | reply

Awesome, Pat.
It was good that you stood up to the guy all those years ago. Something similar happened to me when I was a kid - the guy is still alive though, still an asshole, but alive. Sending a note was, nice.

posted by Hackthorne19 on January 14, 2010 at 8:04 PM | link to this | reply

I found this story interesting. I was pulling for you all the way. I never would have considered any response to a death that much later and of someone I had already finished my accounts with. Funny!

posted by Justi on January 14, 2010 at 6:15 PM | link to this | reply

Pat
Isn't there something about "...and I forgive all those who beat me up, as I hope to be forgiven by those I beat up..."?

posted by Nautikos on January 14, 2010 at 12:18 PM | link to this | reply

PatB
I knew you were a classy lady, I woulda asked for a picture of the coffin.

posted by WileyJohn on January 14, 2010 at 12:01 PM | link to this | reply

Good for you, woman, tearing him apart.  Not all of what I did when a child was without blame, but I don't remember being a bully.  Maybe you helped him grow out of that?  Not nearly as much fun when the victim bites back. 

posted by OutaBreath on January 14, 2010 at 11:40 AM | link to this | reply

Difficult to forgive people that made your childhood a misery in that way. 

posted by elinjo on January 14, 2010 at 11:29 AM | link to this | reply

LOL I think that you are wonderful. I wouldn't send anything.....unless
it was a smiley card.          Bullies are everywhere in every age. This is such a well written memory.

posted by Kabu on January 14, 2010 at 8:13 AM | link to this | reply

I am sure others' memories will concur with yours

posted by Azur on January 14, 2010 at 7:52 AM | link to this | reply