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he is 42 years old so he shouldnt have to check into mom but when you come to my house at least say hi and good bye dont text it, I might think a prowler is in the house and stun gun him

posted by Lanetay on January 5, 2010 at 9:27 AM | link to this | reply

I think it is just a courtesy you are asking! Mine has a new girlfriend and he is doing the same with the shower clean clothes, but he calls me everyday and always tells me he loves me! I would kick his butt otherwise so I might have mine programmed! lol My soldier I have less contact with because of the nature of his life, but I worry that it may hinder things once he is a civilian! I think they get caught up in their lives and forget to check in to see how we are doing. I know you have been very good to your children and I can't fathom why they would not give you the courtesy to be in contact either hello or good-bye! Just let 'em know! sam

posted by sam444 on January 5, 2010 at 8:52 AM | link to this | reply

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guess they are showing me they dont need me

posted by Lanetay on January 5, 2010 at 7:13 AM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove - That's just it..there is no way or time you can stop being a mom. Always taken for granted I suppose. Thank you so much for stopping by my blog and your kind comment.

posted by shobana on January 5, 2010 at 5:30 AM | link to this | reply

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it makes me feel like crap

posted by Lanetay on January 4, 2010 at 7:02 PM | link to this | reply

Re: I had rwo sons now I have one. The other one is ruled by his wife.
well I was hoping they were would be there for me

posted by Lanetay on January 4, 2010 at 7:02 PM | link to this | reply

Re: I'd have been upset
he has always been so considerate of me, guess he doesnt need mom anymore

posted by Lanetay on January 4, 2010 at 7:01 PM | link to this | reply

I had rwo sons now I have one. The other one is ruled by his wife.
I don't intend tolet either of my children or their wives have any say in my old age. I am living my life and so far away ......I helped all the time when the Grandchildren were little  from now on I am letting themlive their lives and I live mine.If I get really ill when I am old, I shall go to a facility and hope to die peacefully.

posted by Kabu on January 4, 2010 at 5:12 PM | link to this | reply

Since I do not have kids I do not know how awful that must feel like...Hopefully they'll all come around.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on January 4, 2010 at 3:34 PM | link to this | reply

I'd have been upset
and know my wife would have been too. We've been quite lucky so far but a bit edgy. I think one of our children will stay in touch more than the other two but we'll see. I hope you'll feel closer again in time

posted by malcolm on January 4, 2010 at 2:04 PM | link to this | reply

Re: your post has made me cry really cry, and maybe i will keep on crying a bit
oh my youngesgt daughter has been the daughter from hell, but my son and I have been connected at the hip for a long time, actions speak louder than words.

posted by Lanetay on January 4, 2010 at 11:00 AM | link to this | reply

your post has made me cry really cry, and maybe i will keep on crying a bit

I remember the day i called my mom and told her "I hope you are happy that you wish came true" it was the day my 13 year old told me she hates me, and began her teenage rebel trip from an inferno. My Mom told me the same thing you mom told you and she was wrong to say it. I will talk to you further on this by email since it is a private matter.

As for your question of what is going with me. I answered you on my blog, if you know anything that can help me .

as for you comment,thanks, that makes me feel like writing more because as you know artists are never satisfied with their work.

posted by Tzippy on January 4, 2010 at 10:55 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Lustor
were talking about a man that has always been my best buddie, moreso then the other two, he is  a grown man and to me its not like him to be like that

posted by Lanetay on January 4, 2010 at 9:06 AM | link to this | reply

Lustor
How sad... and, no, the text "goodbye" was not acceptable.  I think our children drift away for a while and become self-absorbed in their own life  but eventually they come around and start acting like caring, plugged-in adults. That's my hope for you...

posted by Troosha on January 4, 2010 at 8:39 AM | link to this | reply