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involved but no commitment
Do you want to live a beige life? Never feeling the total onslaught of passion and commitment from the other person?
Could you not retain a friendship with this person, and move on? Life is like driving a car at night, the headlamps only throwing up a few metres of detail ahead of you. (The Secret, Rhonda Byrne). But just beyond those headlamps, may lie someone new..... But if you really want this person, then read "The Secret" and follow the 3 steps of request, believe, receive, and who knows, he may realize you are the one. 
I feel for you. Cambria.
posted by
cambria
on December 26, 2009 at 1:25 AM
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Find your own peace...
Do what is right for you. Know that you are on the right path for your life.
posted by
_AC_
on December 23, 2009 at 10:02 AM
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depends on how much time and how well you know him
sometimes waiting is better, let me know at community room it is a great questions that we all face at one time or another
posted by
Tzippy
on December 22, 2009 at 8:29 AM
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That is tough, especially when emotions are involved. Do what your heart tells you.
posted by
mariposa75
on December 20, 2009 at 5:00 PM
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One is left with no option . You have to accept or reject such a situation.
posted by
afzal50
on December 20, 2009 at 4:59 PM
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I feel you
Welcome to my world...in a very similar way. I still believe, and won't give up until I've done what I can. In the meantime, I blog. ;)
posted by
shadesofblue
on December 19, 2009 at 9:18 PM
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I guess one either needs to just accept the situation or move on.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on December 19, 2009 at 5:31 PM
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If someone really loves you they don't play hot and then go cold
or luke warm. Moving on is really tough but in the end it willlead a person to who they really deserve.
posted by
Kabu
on December 19, 2009 at 9:54 AM
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We all have fears, this may be it more than anything else. It is hard to let go and cleave onto someone else. It feels vaunerable when it should be strength! Love has to grow for me and I think I would try understanding and communication of feelings. If they can't or won't be addressed then it may be best to move on; everyone heals that wants to heal. sam
posted by
sam444
on December 19, 2009 at 8:37 AM
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Unless it's totally mutual, it it's not worth it. If he's the right one, he
will return your love, affections and desire to be with you...there will be no games, no guessing...just total enthrallment, but then you're talking to someone ruled by Venus (Taurus) with a passionate moon in Scorpio.
posted by
Ariala
on December 19, 2009 at 4:12 AM
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