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yes it never stops
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 8:11 PM
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I'm so sorry to read of these string of unfortunate events.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on December 8, 2009 at 7:02 PM
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I am sure she has learned her lesson and he wont be allowed around here as long as I am here, she has a job but no work to give her. She is at court right now to get the restraining order, but since they removed the threats from his case then he will be released on Fri, I have fought as long as I can to get her to take any thing to just hang onto her car, who knows what is next
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 11:24 AM
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if decisions are not made with thought, then there is alot of closing the barn door when the horses have already gotten out.
I am not sure a restrainging order will fix the problem since your daughter is a fixer. Doesn't sound like she will give up on this guy, the question is will he give up on her.
The job situation is awful, and i know many people here that cannot find jobs, and some that even though they could get a min. wage job, will not. I guess it all depends on how much you need the money.
If you don't have a car there are always bicycles, buses, taxis, friends, mom, brothers, sharing a ride and if all else fails walking. Where there is a will there is a way.
posted by
jeansaw
on December 8, 2009 at 10:42 AM
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Re: lustorlove
yes that might help
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 10:18 AM
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without her car she cant go for job interview etc and the ticket was because she nor I can get the $500 together to pay the registration, she is now at court trying to get the restraining order
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 10:17 AM
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Re: Get the restraining order anyway. won't help but it goes onto his record
I keep telling her that, the bank for her car called today giving her 3 more days
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 10:13 AM
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you and me both, I know I am lucky that is all there is but its enough
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 10:12 AM
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lustorlove
Sounds like we all need to do a lot of praying for ya luv

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posted by
WileyJohn
on December 8, 2009 at 9:58 AM
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I have a son who likes to go about the world without a care! He doesn't take care of business and he recently got pulled over and cited for no insurance, speeding, and the list goes on! By the time he was done with an attorney, another long story of not taking care of business, court costs it was $1,850, notwithstanding the bail, another long story, again not taking care of business, and towing, he gave away three weeks of fishing in the Bering Sea from last season! Then his car stopped running and it was too costly to fix it, then his license was suspended and he had to get an sr22 insurance, and then reinstate his license! And I will tell you right now, NONE of this needed to happen! The kick in the butt with the whole thing is that he was taking a friend to work when this happened. He got pulled out of the middle of the flow of traffic and cited! What I am trying to say is that these children get themselves into fixes! I immediately told he needed to get them fixed, stop whining about them, and start anew! Things happen but they must fix them, themselves, and move forward. The first thing my son did was borrow a bicycle until he fixed things! Your daughter can have all kinds of reasons why things don't occur or why they occur, but tickets are inexcusable in my opinion! If it is not legal to be on the road it needs to be in the driveway because too many tickets come about when they are not!
It is crazy about the threatening guy! My goodness, and I have so little faith in restraining orders, but they are necessary! I will pray for your daughter to remain safe and that this man leaves her alone.
NO ENABLING!!! TOUGH LOVE! I don't know if it is all that effective but my son knows I don't listen to whining; I am a POA person! sam
posted by
sam444
on December 8, 2009 at 9:55 AM
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Get the restraining order anyway. won't help but it goes onto his record
Your daughter is going to have to take any sort of work that comes along no matter what it is. You need somehelp and fast. I love you and wish I could help.
posted by
Kabu
on December 8, 2009 at 9:42 AM
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Things just do not seem to be going your way, do they.
I hope that will change and things will start looking up for you.
posted by
TAPS.
on December 8, 2009 at 9:22 AM
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thank you and the same to you
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 7:51 AM
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Re: Ah Yes...Liberal Attorneys
yes but there was a public defender and they didnt have all the information about this case
posted by
Lanetay
on December 8, 2009 at 7:51 AM
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And how could I forget you...Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year Lustorlove to you and yours. Take care ok...be safe.

posted by
shobana
on December 7, 2009 at 10:24 PM
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Ah Yes...Liberal Attorneys
Nothing like our liberal court system is it. I could write a book on this due to my daughter being shaken by a so-called daycare sitter 11 years ago when she was only 5 months old.
I am so sorry you had to go through this but this is our liberal system. It is full of liberal attorney's who have no desire for what is right except they just want the money when they fully well know their client is guilty.
I agree. A misdemeanor is not enough in this case but we live in a liberal world.
posted by
RedStatesMan
on December 7, 2009 at 9:24 PM
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too bad the judge was so lenient
posted by
Lanetay
on December 7, 2009 at 9:15 PM
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Wow, sounds like this guy's a real peach. Sorry you've had to deal with that sort.
posted by
Darson
on December 7, 2009 at 8:42 PM
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there was no graffiti he broke my windshield
posted by
Lanetay
on December 7, 2009 at 7:41 PM
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Restraining order should be good - I hope..and they got that graffiti from all the decorations being put up for Christmas - probably their idea of a Christmas present. Hope for the best lustorlove.
posted by
shobana
on December 7, 2009 at 7:40 PM
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