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That is a relaxing thought.  I'll try it more often.

posted by mariss9 on March 4, 2010 at 8:20 PM | link to this | reply

being yourself

Hi Straightforward,

 Now that is not as straightforward as it sounds!! If one is a loner, sure, you can create any facade of personality you like; but if you have a partner, or family ties,or a business image to uphold, you are bound to live in a straitjacket of conformity. I am reading "Women who Run with the Wolves" by Clarissa Pinkola Estes, and she details the various ways in which women have been stripped of their power by domesticity and the demands of the male; most women respond by having a secret life of some sort. Unfortunately it must remain secret.. it is difficult to run with wolves when there is ironing, vacuuming and cooking to be done!! But you go and be yourself this Christmas, many will thank you for it!! Cambria.

   

posted by cambria on December 24, 2009 at 3:41 AM | link to this | reply

what you see is what you get

posted by StrickGold on December 2, 2009 at 2:00 PM | link to this | reply

I'm comfortable with who I am
and it took me years to get here.  Yes, I believe that what you speak; be true - have integrity - be yourself ~ Elyse ~ Happy Thanksgiving ~

posted by elysianfields on November 25, 2009 at 9:53 PM | link to this | reply

I can vouch for you and say that it works for me.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on November 25, 2009 at 2:55 PM | link to this | reply

I spent so much ofmy life just trying to please people...now what you see
is me. I am no good in a crowd so I don't try any more. I just go quiet. One to one I hog the floor.

posted by Kabu on November 25, 2009 at 2:54 PM | link to this | reply

You need a great deal of self confidence to be just yourself. Admirable feature, though.

posted by elinjo on November 25, 2009 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

You bet it is, Troosha

posted by Straightforward on November 25, 2009 at 8:29 AM | link to this | reply

Straight
Ah, yes, to be yourself.  It took me a while to get there – I used to have multiple “images” or facades that I put out there to the world.  Now I’m just me and it’s so freeing. 

posted by Troosha on November 25, 2009 at 6:55 AM | link to this | reply