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glad you dont feel I was cruel

posted by Lanetay on November 13, 2009 at 7:57 AM | link to this | reply

no, you were not cruel

posted by jeansaw on November 12, 2009 at 11:38 PM | link to this | reply

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he seems like a real nice guy but not what he has done to my daughter and she puts up with it

posted by Lanetay on November 10, 2009 at 9:04 AM | link to this | reply

I think, I'd have said something even more scathing! He sounds a real jerk.

posted by elinjo on November 10, 2009 at 8:47 AM | link to this | reply

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he gets mad if she questions the relatonship and says she doesnt trust him, who would but I dont know why it is so important to go visit her

posted by Lanetay on November 10, 2009 at 8:04 AM | link to this | reply

IMHO, what you said was honest - and she must have known it anyway. What a creep her husband is!

posted by Rockingrector_retd on November 10, 2009 at 5:32 AM | link to this | reply

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she knows I dont approve so I was just being honest

posted by Lanetay on November 9, 2009 at 3:58 PM | link to this | reply

I don't see it as being cruel.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on November 9, 2009 at 3:31 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Lustorlove
I dont agree she lets it go on

posted by Lanetay on November 9, 2009 at 3:14 PM | link to this | reply

Re: No not cruel and she has to learn like me like I have had to that if you go
I wasnt a very good example with her dad, but she was quit young I dont know how much she knew

posted by Lanetay on November 9, 2009 at 3:13 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Clearly, she would know that you don't mean to be cruel, but are just
yes just being caring

posted by Lanetay on November 9, 2009 at 3:13 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove
You are simply a very caring and supportive mom luv.

posted by WileyJohn on November 9, 2009 at 2:43 PM | link to this | reply

No not cruel and she has to learn like me like I have had to that if you go
ahead and make excuses for him,if you take him back,if you keep making mistakes then people lose faith in you and you have to growup,make real grown updecisions on your own and carry them through on your own.  You are just giving her the oportunity to grow up and take proper control of her own situations and own life. My parents could never blame me for anything. Always excused anything I did and maybe the darlings didn't help me as much as you have just helped your daughter. I say you did the right thing.

posted by Kabu on November 9, 2009 at 12:10 PM | link to this | reply

Clearly, she would know that you don't mean to be cruel, but are just
concerned.

posted by Straightforward on November 9, 2009 at 9:32 AM | link to this | reply