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                I often become aggravated and puzzled with the same phenomenon. We are who we are. 
  
                
                    posted by
                    mariss9
                     on November 4, 2009 at 4:34 PM
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                I am the same way, I always think good of people until the prove me wrong
  
                
                    posted by
                    Lanetay
                     on November 4, 2009 at 8:39 AM
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                I can't say I blame you for not feeling sorry for that coworker.  
                
                    posted by
                    FormerStudentIntern
                     on November 3, 2009 at 7:08 PM
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                You didn't want to hurt her, just have it exposed for what it was and is! That is why you have compassion; it would have been better for her to know her area of responsibility and adhere to it! Perhaps she will fulfill her job description! she is a member of the team and has her function; not everyone can be the quarterback so to speak! Stay with the underdog, it's what makes you special! sam 

  
                
                    posted by
                    sam444
                     on November 3, 2009 at 5:59 PM
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 ~ well I name it: compassion ~  Amen 

 Elyse  
                
                    posted by
                    elysianfields
                     on November 2, 2009 at 8:53 PM
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                    It's easy to get confused where emotions are concerned.
                
                This person is learning a tough lesson at last and dear sweet you are feeling her pain. I hear you but I think this time it is out of your control to help. I suppose just treat the person as you always have because I am sure you have always acted really nice. You are a dear, I knew you were.  
                
                    posted by
                    Kabu
                     on November 2, 2009 at 7:38 PM
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