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posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on September 24, 2009 at 5:17 PM
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Re: Yes, as the famous adage goes, "seeing is believing"
And HOW!
posted by
Darson
on September 24, 2009 at 9:09 AM
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Yes, as the famous adage goes, "seeing is believing"
posted by
Straightforward
on September 24, 2009 at 6:15 AM
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Re: shobana
Absolutely. Some people we make that ought never to be are made into our heroes. Sometimes we're all just kind of silly that way...!
posted by
Darson
on September 24, 2009 at 1:58 AM
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There may be times when it is camouflaged really well and then when you find out it would be too late. I don't know but there are two sides to this statement imho. Sometimes it's what you want to see in a person I think.
posted by
shobana
on September 24, 2009 at 12:26 AM
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Re: sam444
Thank you. Love the book, "He's just not that into you", ever read it? It's got a lot of sailor-talk in it but the points they make are invaluable. I need to re-read that one. The movie's not half bad, either. I love it how they say in the book, "don't waste the pretty'! We shouldn't!!!
posted by
Darson
on September 24, 2009 at 12:03 AM
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posted by
Star5_
on September 23, 2009 at 8:39 PM
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It is a matter of believing it when we see! I have had experiences when I had a blind eye and man did I get blind sided! Excellent post! sam
posted by
sam444
on September 23, 2009 at 11:03 AM
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Re: how do they show you who they are>
Hmmm...ya want my opinion? No one's THAT good. There are some cracks in everyone's armor. If they're pretending, there will be instances, sooner or later, where that will prove to be abundantly clear...the trick is to see them when they are happening right before our eyes. I was dating a man once; we went to an airport together. While holding my hand, he was actually looking past my head to check out the pretty young things. What should that say to me, loud and clear? (Soooo many things!) Unbelievably, it took me a while to allow it to soak in. When a person shows you who they are, believe them. That's what I think...does this assist in clarifying?
posted by
Darson
on September 23, 2009 at 7:40 AM
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how do they show you who they are>
when they are pretending or when they are real?
posted by
Tzippy
on September 23, 2009 at 7:12 AM
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