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Re: Lustor
us in fat bodies cant see beyond the fat when we are teased and ridicule all your life, its second nature to feel this

posted by Lanetay on July 30, 2009 at 7:09 AM | link to this | reply

Lustor
It may be the confidence of the person who is afraid someone will not look approvingly on them because of weight. I know the issues I have seen them through my own eyes. I went from a dress size 4 to beyond mention and people think I am somebody else. I change that given an opportunity to get to know them even a little.

posted by Justi on July 30, 2009 at 5:34 AM | link to this | reply

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you like them for them and not their looks?

posted by Lanetay on July 29, 2009 at 10:46 PM | link to this | reply

I do feel too many guys are rigid when it comes to looks.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on July 29, 2009 at 8:10 PM | link to this | reply

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yes its very sad and men is where we get some of our self esteem

posted by Lanetay on July 29, 2009 at 6:48 AM | link to this | reply

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unless they were lying it seemed like these women in their twenties had never dated, why is that?

posted by Lanetay on July 29, 2009 at 6:47 AM | link to this | reply

lustorlove - beauty I think is in the eye of the beholder. I know very many people with great hearts, full of zest for life, have the same visions & aspirations with beauty all inside having wonderful relationships and at the same time, those with looks having the most troubled of marriages. Yes, it's sad but the appearances outside captivates first.

posted by shobana on July 29, 2009 at 1:51 AM | link to this | reply

Not all men see it that way, Lustorlove.

posted by elinjo on July 28, 2009 at 10:54 PM | link to this | reply