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Re: Re: Re: I don't think you understand men who lose their spouses to death.
age has nothing to do with the need for sex, I am 65 and I need it, some other ladies at 65 could care less, my friend is 70 and said it never has matter to her.  Thank you for your good wishes

posted by Lanetay on May 25, 2009 at 7:58 AM | link to this | reply

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I don't think he has tested the waters until me, I may be wrong, they are going to spread her ashes this coming weekend with the family, then maybe he will get some closure

posted by Lanetay on May 25, 2009 at 7:56 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: I don't think you understand men who lose their spouses to death.
It seems to me that in some way or other sexuality continues to play a part  in our lives irrespective of how old we are. Good luck to you Lustorlove, I hope it works out for you both.

posted by elinjo on May 25, 2009 at 1:32 AM | link to this | reply

I have seen so many highly successful second marriages, sometimes after divorce, sometimes after a bereavement and sometimes a mixture of the two. Listen to your instincts and follow them - this could be exactly right for you, only you (and he) can tell. I hope it works out as you wish.

posted by Rockingrector_retd on May 25, 2009 at 12:56 AM | link to this | reply

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thank you

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2009 at 9:04 PM | link to this | reply

I wish you the best and I hope you get what your
looking for

posted by Samantha39 on May 24, 2009 at 8:02 PM | link to this | reply

Re: I don't think you understand men who lose their spouses to death.
I agree with you, but depends on the older man, older men also seek sexual gratification before anything else, age really doesnt have that much to do with it

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2009 at 4:28 PM | link to this | reply

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I think it would be easier to have a ex-spouse die, then divorce as at least they are gone and not around 

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2009 at 4:26 PM | link to this | reply

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I agree I have never been with a man that wasnt all over me, he seems to be very respectful and we a good time together

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2009 at 4:24 PM | link to this | reply

I don't think you understand men who lose their spouses to death.
You mention that the reason men remarry earlier than women is the need for sexual gratification.  That might be true for those who are maybe 25.  But, for older men, I think it is more for companionship and somebody to give their home and life a female's touch.

posted by Joe_Love on May 24, 2009 at 3:53 PM | link to this | reply

I can certainly see how a divorce could have be more detrimental to relationships.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 24, 2009 at 2:54 PM | link to this | reply

I think the slower the better! Get to know one another! Grow into love as opposed to falling into love! It could be a wonderful loving friendship too! I say enjoy this time and nurture it! sam

posted by sam444 on May 24, 2009 at 2:14 PM | link to this | reply