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even if we dont go out again I do see him at the bar I go to on Sat, saw him last night, maybe he is testing how he feels I dont know

posted by Lanetay on May 24, 2009 at 10:58 AM | link to this | reply

Very philosophical. It takes (usually) a minimum of 18 months to come to terms with the death of someone close, so you might be better to hook up with him again in a year's time. Hope it works out for you.

posted by Rockingrector_retd on May 24, 2009 at 7:17 AM | link to this | reply

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I got a email from him this afternoon saying he had a good time and would see me around, who knows what is next

posted by Lanetay on May 23, 2009 at 7:36 PM | link to this | reply

I don't think he is ready either! sam

posted by sam444 on May 23, 2009 at 7:18 PM | link to this | reply

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yea you are probably right

posted by Lanetay on May 23, 2009 at 5:49 PM | link to this | reply

Doesn't sound like he's ready yet. I'm thinking the same.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 23, 2009 at 5:03 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Hey, at least you HAD a date.
true

posted by Lanetay on May 23, 2009 at 1:58 PM | link to this | reply

Hey, at least you HAD a date.

posted by shelly_b on May 23, 2009 at 11:25 AM | link to this | reply

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I have been doing this for a long time and I just picked up this vibe

posted by Lanetay on May 23, 2009 at 11:17 AM | link to this | reply

Go with your gut.  Unfortunately it is never wrong. 

posted by ravenmarie on May 23, 2009 at 9:08 AM | link to this | reply

Re: First dates can be awkward. If he asks you out again. .,
yes I feel that might be the case, and losing the love of his life I am sure hasnt been easy on him, I just felt it was me

posted by Lanetay on May 23, 2009 at 7:46 AM | link to this | reply

First dates can be awkward. If he asks you out again. .,
you should give him a second chance.  He might just have been off the market for so long that he feels unsure of himself. ., maybe.

posted by Joe_Love on May 23, 2009 at 1:24 AM | link to this | reply