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flappergirl

Here's a guess as to why you still defend him. When two people get married, if it's going to work, a couple changes they way they think. The I, me, and mine thought process is transformed to we, us, and our. It can be difficult to come to this way of thinking, even more difficult to undo it.

Be wary of this guy to your left. His motivations may not be purely altruistic.   

posted by Talion_ on February 23, 2009 at 4:24 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Maybe you have looked deeper....
Well, the reason I am getting divorced is because of the cheating... I just guess I thought people could change.

posted by flappergirl on February 18, 2009 at 11:48 AM | link to this | reply

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omg, you had to ask. Had an awful night! Had some bad beats.

posted by flappergirl on February 18, 2009 at 11:47 AM | link to this | reply

Maybe you have looked deeper....
inside this guy and see qualities that others don't see. Keep your guard up and proceed with caution. You can't ignore what others have to say but at the same time unless you see with your own eyes then all you have to go on is what others say. Good luck!

posted by Texas_Gem on February 18, 2009 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

I believe there are plenty of them out there in the world! So, did you win anything? sam

posted by sam444 on February 18, 2009 at 9:52 AM | link to this | reply