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Re: Re: hazel_st_cricket
posted by
Lanetay
on February 16, 2009 at 4:51 PM
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Re: hazel_st_cricket
Thanks, sweety. xxoxoxoox
posted by
hazel_st_cricket
on February 16, 2009 at 4:47 PM
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hazel_st_cricket
now if Charles has a clone you might be right and he is the lucky man and you know I wish you the very best
posted by
Lanetay
on February 16, 2009 at 4:40 PM
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metalrat
nicely said but no one can know for certain until there eyes meet in person and there is either the cemestry or not, then have been men I flipped for on the phone and or the net and when we met it was what the heck am I thinking
but its those that live in other counties that take the biggest risk, that is why I admire Kabu for standing by her man in sickness and health.
posted by
Lanetay
on February 16, 2009 at 4:38 PM
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I never ever thought I would or could get involved in a long
distance relationship, and now here I am, in one with a fantastic guy, metalrat / Charles. I think they are very hard, but when it's right it's right and I feel so happy. I believe we can make it work. I agree with everything Kabu says and everything metalrat says. My sister had been through so many internet relationships and was ready to give up, then met a guy on Yahoo dating. They got engaged this past Christmas and she is so very happy. I think there's a lot of freaks out there, and one should use caution, but there's a lot of good people who are just lonely and looking for love, too. I know you'll find Mr. Right, your a wonderful woman, any guy would be lucky to have you. xxoo
posted by
hazel_st_cricket
on February 16, 2009 at 4:07 PM
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Lustor...
...I can totally relate to what you're saying as well as what Kabu is saying.
The same emotional dynamics involved in local relationships are present in long distance relationships as well, and if one or both of the people involved are able and willing to make a change in location within a reasonable amount of time(before the relationship stales) it can work...as in Wiley and Kabu's case.
I and my kids are close, also, but, they're grown and if I move away, it will be with the intention of visiting them on a fairly regular basis. I love to travel, so the back-and-forth isn't a problem for me.
And my kids have always known that I intended to move some day, which, when that time comes, will not diminish our love for one another.
Hell, I know an elderly woman, originally from California, who saw more of her kids
after she moved away more than twenty years ago.
Every situation is different, which is why a long-distance relationship isn't for everyone.
But, it's important to note, that when two people love each other and all the right ingredients are there for a long, successful relationship...the distance between them is only temporary.
posted by
metalrat
on February 16, 2009 at 3:49 PM
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Kabu
my thing is I am very close with my kids and they are good to me
posted by
Lanetay
on February 15, 2009 at 6:52 PM
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Do you know love I would be the first to say be very careful
Wiley and I gor to know each other firt through our writing, then by email then for hour and hour on the telephone. When I reached here we knew each other so well and when the chemistry was there too; the ret a they say is history. BUT I have heard so many horrible things I can only recommend caution. Besides, what have I left behind? Not much really, just to be on the edge of other people's lives and a convenience as an occassional kid sitter. All my grandchildren are growing so fast.We all love each other and I will go back to visit but here i love companionship and happiness.
posted by
Kabu
on February 15, 2009 at 6:51 PM
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