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Naut, this might be bad for your diet, but maybe good for you:

I suspect that Blogit fills a certain calorie count and nutrition for some of us...  Several people around here--you among them--serve up regular feasts, and good wholesome light fare, too. 

How's that taste?

posted by Ciel on January 11, 2009 at 1:29 AM | link to this | reply

Troosha, thanks for adding this to the conversation!
It's important stuff!

posted by Ciel on January 11, 2009 at 1:26 AM | link to this | reply

Mariaki,
I can see your point, and agree--but have to add that even parental love sometimes struggles with conditions and issues, and not all kids or parents have the benefit of the experience of unconditional love.

posted by Ciel on January 11, 2009 at 1:25 AM | link to this | reply

I am dieting right now...

posted by Nautikos on January 10, 2009 at 6:43 PM | link to this | reply

Our starvation for approval or for the love of others is because there’s an emptiness that needs to be filled and we think it can be filled by external relationships.  Oh sure, external relationships can boost us up, catch us when we’re falling, enrich our joy by sharing it with us, or perhaps even dry our tears but the buck stops here, so to speak.  It is our responsibility to peal away the layers of self hatred or degradation and discover all those characteristic about ourselves that are loveable.   The human journey is incomplete if we do not take the time to self-nurture and learn to love the uniqueness of who we are.  It’s then that we can give of ourselves rather than simply take.  I enjoyed reading both posts, Ciel.  It’s an important topic.    

posted by Troosha on January 9, 2009 at 7:39 AM | link to this | reply

Your corner of the universe...
...apparently affords you an eagle's eye perspective on love, because you see it perfedctly.

posted by metalrat on January 8, 2009 at 10:13 PM | link to this | reply

From my corner of the universe to yours my friend
as far as I can see the only unconditional love is one of parent to child all the other forms are somewhere in between; many blessings and thanks for being in mine

posted by mariaki on January 8, 2009 at 4:44 AM | link to this | reply

Thankee kindly, Merkie!

posted by Ciel on January 8, 2009 at 12:01 AM | link to this | reply

Re: You have well-said!
Thanks, TG!

posted by Ciel on January 8, 2009 at 12:00 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Beginnings

That's where we have to get, before we can get to the next step.  Nice to know you're on your way, isn't it?

 

posted by Ciel on January 8, 2009 at 12:00 AM | link to this | reply

"It asks for balance, not perfection; It requires insight, patience and humor.  This kind of love is a healing love that progresses to an ever-more-whole experience "You have an excellent view from your corner ciel . Great post ,very well expressed.

posted by merkie on January 7, 2009 at 7:51 PM | link to this | reply

You have well-said!
Good post!!

posted by Texas_Gem on January 7, 2009 at 7:44 PM | link to this | reply

Beginnings
This is getting into deep psychology, which has always been problematic for me.  I can't say I love myself.  But I've managed to find acceptance.

posted by mousehop on January 7, 2009 at 7:13 PM | link to this | reply