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TAPS
you were smart and werent taken in

posted by Lanetay on December 3, 2008 at 7:31 PM | link to this | reply

There are many who make it the second time around, perhaps having learned from the first.  But, it was not in me to give it a try at second timing.  Though he claimed having changed for the better, I knew it was but a facade.  And, even more, I knew that I had not changed at all, and didn't even want to.

posted by TAPS. on December 3, 2008 at 12:28 PM | link to this | reply

SpitFire70
there are some men I would like to rekindle some hot passionate love with

posted by Lanetay on December 2, 2008 at 8:49 PM | link to this | reply

ravenmarie
last time I saw my ex I couldnt believe I was ever in love with the manm that was almost 8 years ago, and we were married 20 years

posted by Lanetay on December 2, 2008 at 8:48 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove,
Yep. Been there, done that. I think it all depends on the specific curcumstances, like, did the previous problem get resolved? Did you learn and grow during that time apart? Stuff like that. Many people do rekindle for the better, but IMHO, I think most realize/remember why they broke up the first time.

posted by SpitFire70 on December 2, 2008 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

   Haven't experienced it but I would imagine if it works it means one of both GREW UP.

posted by ravenmarie on December 2, 2008 at 8:33 PM | link to this | reply