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I love Kabu's response!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on November 7, 2008 at 11:16 PM
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Dear Bel
I've noticed that relationships are so challenging! I have been single for a long time and I simply don't mind
posted by
mysteria
on November 7, 2008 at 11:03 PM
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Re: Just hold on tight to yourself darling. I even have times of feeling sorry
LOL Kabu. It cracks me up to see our sweet darling Kabu call anyone numb nuts! You are so right my dear!
posted by
Bel_
on November 7, 2008 at 8:57 PM
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Re: Looks like
hehehehehehe! I am! Failure is not optional!
posted by
Bel_
on November 7, 2008 at 8:57 PM
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Re: ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Bel
Oh thank you so much!
posted by
Bel_
on November 7, 2008 at 8:56 PM
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Re: Kris
It's life. With all it's bumps and lumps along the way, it's still a ride I am happy to take!
I wish I had good advice for you dear, but we all have to follow our own path and do what feels right for us. Best of luck in whatever choice you make my dear. You know I was thinking of you the other day I was playing Nancy Wilson. You certainly turned me onto some darned good music!
posted by
Bel_
on November 7, 2008 at 8:54 PM
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Re: You did what you had to do...
So true. Thank you
posted by
Bel_
on November 7, 2008 at 8:50 PM
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Re: Kathy
I am certainly looking forward to what is to come. Thank you so much!
posted by
Bel_
on November 7, 2008 at 8:50 PM
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Just hold on tight to yourself darling. I even have times of feeling sorry
for numb nuts back in Australia. I usually knock it on the head by reminding myself of twenty years of abuse. But we're human and we have compassion and he's just not got someone else at present so while you're friendly he's thinking you might be easier than finding someone new. I'll keep you in my prayers love.
posted by
Kabu
on November 7, 2008 at 6:52 PM
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You are gonna be OK!
posted by
Whacky
on November 7, 2008 at 6:05 PM
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~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Bel
Hello Bel. I wish you happiness in all of your tomorrow's. Your friend always, Jacenta.
posted by
jacentaOld
on November 7, 2008 at 4:18 PM
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Strange, but I so clearly remember parts of your past posts....the story of your meeting, falling in love and many along the way....now, looking back and knowing the end it all seems like a movie I once saw. I wish I had your
oomph....so I would get rid of mine....
posted by
Krisles
on November 7, 2008 at 3:58 PM
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You did what you had to do...
...without intending to leave hearts in your wake.
Life sometimes leaves hearts in its wake, all on its own, and there's little we can do, but, like you did, be sympathetic, yet strong and resolute in your convictions and firm in your position.
Hang in there, Bel.
posted by
metalrat
on November 7, 2008 at 12:35 PM
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unfortunately - people change and move in different directions - that is life - but the worst thing you can feel is guilt - fear of the unknown maybe - but not guilt - you gave it your all and you loved him - that's all you can do - now here comes another great chapter in your life - kathy
posted by
ladychardonnay
on November 7, 2008 at 12:12 PM
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