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He was cigarrate smoke and all.  He usually comes around at 4am and I smell cigarrates.  I ask him to smell like flowers but that wouldn't smell like him.  
                
                    posted by
                    skye08
                     on October 2, 2008 at 9:20 AM
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                    Skye
                
                Perhaps your Dad was even watching over 
you as you
 wrote the post.  Thank you for sharing your story - your father's story.  
 
  
                
                    posted by
                    Troosha
                     on October 2, 2008 at 8:20 AM
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                    Thank you
                
                     I know that I always say the same thing.  But I mean it.  Thank You so much for shareing such special memories with us.   You write so well that I truely feel like I am right there with you.  
                
                    posted by
                    ravenmarie
                     on October 1, 2008 at 7:12 PM
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                I was so in this. Losing a family member to cancer is the worst; I felt my brother-in-law when I was reading this. sam  
                
                    posted by
                    sam444
                     on September 30, 2008 at 4:24 PM
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                Thank you for sharing. It renewed memories for me. Keep up the good care for Richard. Blessings sent to you
 
  
                
                    posted by
                    merkie
                     on September 29, 2008 at 4:13 PM
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                    Being a caregiver.
                
                        WOW! This posting just blew me away!
       I too, am a caregiver for a lady that I care deeply about. She will not go quietly or meekly into that good night. I hope that she will outlive me, but a part of me knows better. Marilyn has MS and this is incurable, progressive, and ultimately fatal because while the disease does not kill anyone, the effects of it eventually will. My heart goes out to you. You expressed thoughts and concerns that millions of us have had. I also deliver "meals on wheels" to seniors who are on the same path to the grave, the same path that we all are on. Nobody gets outta here alive! 
      A wheelchair-bound lady once told me that I am a "Tab." She explained that I am just "temporarily able-bodied." If everyone saw things the way she did, we might live in a better world! Thank you for what you wrote. You have performed a great service with this posting.
       Guy
  
                
                    posted by
                    northsage_45
                     on September 29, 2008 at 4:05 PM
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                (((((((Sky)))))) That was a sad but beautiful story.  You are lucky you were there when he passed.  What a wonderful gift to your Dad.  Beautifully written as well.  
 
  
                
                    posted by
                    Sinome
                     on September 29, 2008 at 2:48 PM
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