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                what strength you must have, I know I wouldnt be able to handle this
 
  
                
                    posted by
                    Lanetay
                     on September 29, 2008 at 7:57 PM
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                    Re: at this time you may need more help to care others, and may be you need a 
                
                I have hospice coming in and a caregive assist to help me around the house but the hour here and there I get are ate up when I have to get up every night at 3AM.  He also won't allow anyone but me to help him except his bath aide.  Last week when Tom was here, he wouldn't let Tom help him get up. Said he didn't know how.  Tom is a RN also.   
                
                    posted by
                    skye08
                     on September 29, 2008 at 2:23 PM
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                    at this time you may need more help to care others, and may be you need a 
                
                break......see all options, sometimes we are not capable of providing all the care our dear one's needed....may be think of some vising nurses or aides come home for few hours....it might give you a break for few hours which you deserve...  
                
                    posted by
                    Star5_
                     on September 29, 2008 at 10:42 AM
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                    at this time you may need more help to care others, and may be you need a 
                
                break......see all options, sometimes we are not capable of providing all the care our dear one's needed....may be think of some vising nurses or aides come home for few hours....it might give you a break for few hours which you deserve...  
                
                    posted by
                    Star5_
                     on September 29, 2008 at 10:42 AM
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                Call on the Lord for strength! He will help you! sma  
                
                    posted by
                    sam444
                     on September 28, 2008 at 5:50 PM
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                    Passionate and heartfelt post ....Touching piece indeed !
                
                
                
                    posted by
                    afzal50
                     on September 28, 2008 at 4:40 AM
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