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                    Pat_B
                
                When you're as lazy as I am, it's so much easier to walk the straight and narrow. Maintaining elaborate deceptions takes a lot of work. If I wanted that, I would've joined the CIA.    
                
                    posted by
                    Talion_
                     on July 20, 2008 at 9:05 PM
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                    benzinha 
                
                Well, that's one way of looking at it. Of course another is some things are meant to be and some things aren't. Beating yourself up over it is ultimately a waste of time. Besides, beating up someone else is a lot more fun.    
                
                    posted by
                    Talion_
                     on July 20, 2008 at 9:02 PM
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                    sam444 
                
                That's the basic idea. If one has everything one wants and needs, why go searching elsewhere?  
                
                    posted by
                    Talion_
                     on July 20, 2008 at 8:59 PM
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                    Straightforward
                
                I'd like to say I do it 
all the time, but that's stretching it. 
Most of the time may be a reach as well. 
Sometimes will have to do. Thanks.    
                
                    posted by
                    Talion_
                     on July 20, 2008 at 8:58 PM
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                    Smittenheimer
                
                Thanks a lot. I appreciate it.  
                
                    posted by
                    Talion_
                     on July 20, 2008 at 8:56 PM
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                    TAPS.
                
                I'm afraid the world needs a lot more than that, but it's a start.  
                
                    posted by
                    Talion_
                     on July 20, 2008 at 8:55 PM
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                    I feel exactly the same way, Talion.
                
                When I was married I never wanted anyone else -- except possibly Paul Newman, but we all know 
that was gonna happen!  It was my policy not to do anything I'd have to lie about, nor anything I couldn't share with my husband. It's so much easier to live that way. :)  
                
                    posted by
                    Pat_B
                     on July 18, 2008 at 4:31 PM
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                    Well, now, if I had been like you, I might still be married to one of my 
                
                    husbands or they had been like you, they might still be married to me...... tsk, tsk, tsk, a shame, a sorry and mournful shame, truly.... 
   
  
                
                    posted by
                    benzinha
                     on July 16, 2008 at 12:12 AM
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                I totally agree, if one is happy and committed, nothing could interfere with the union! I like your thoughts!  sam  
                
                    posted by
                    sam444
                     on July 15, 2008 at 9:32 AM
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                    You display clear thinking, Talion
                
                
                
                    posted by
                    Straightforward
                     on July 15, 2008 at 7:03 AM
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                    I totally agree
                
                with the wise comments presented below by TAPS.  Your take on relationships is outstanding and I am happy for you that it turned out so well.   
                
                    posted by
                    Smittenheimer
                     on July 15, 2008 at 6:41 AM
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                Good for you, Talion.  What this world needs if a few more like you.  
 
  Actually, a few committed wives would be good too.  
                
                    posted by
                    TAPS.
                     on July 14, 2008 at 7:39 PM
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