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Actually, yes I would my dear!
you are quite correct; self love is the first step to finding your ideal partner; thank you and God bless

posted by mariaki on May 23, 2008 at 2:45 AM | link to this | reply

Nope I don't think I would..There is far more out there to do and see that I don't want to argue about where we should go next..

posted by Wigopa_ on May 22, 2008 at 11:46 PM | link to this | reply

Aww Kolekshuns, thought and thought but could find no answer

posted by Bhaskar.ing on May 22, 2008 at 9:54 PM | link to this | reply

Hmmm that is a poignant question,  My first impulse is to say : No way!  I would never marry myself,  too sentimental and I cry all the time.  But afterwards, thinking it over I got to the conclusion that it would not be so bad to be with someone that new me so well :-)  Besides,  I love me ( most of the time I think) , so I guess it would be OK. Great post!

posted by Sinome on May 22, 2008 at 9:20 PM | link to this | reply

Sure, I would.......If I was a guy, I would have looked for a real me...
because I am nice, pretty, lovable, a bundle of joy, but if I need to irritate, I can do that too............I AM PERFECT FIT ME...........BOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOO, can't beat that right?

posted by Star5_ on May 22, 2008 at 1:54 PM | link to this | reply

Great wrute, I loved it, Kolekshuns

posted by Kayzzaman on May 22, 2008 at 1:24 PM | link to this | reply

I know now-that-at the very least-we should try to 'sort out' any baggage
before attempting to enter into a relationship! Also-that when we do-we must be very sure-because you can't 'change' someone afterwards! Chris.

posted by Scramble on May 22, 2008 at 1:15 PM | link to this | reply

!hi its ladydew
hi! lol! I have alot of changing to do! great write! ladydew

posted by ladydew on May 22, 2008 at 1:14 PM | link to this | reply

This is a treasure! I know folks who want prince charming but don't want to look like the princess.   sam

posted by sam444 on May 22, 2008 at 12:43 PM | link to this | reply

Kolekshuns
So often we have the expectation that another person can fill the emptiness within us yet, as you said, it is not until we are whole (or at the very least a work in progress) that we can offer ourselves to another.  I’d marry myself – my flaws and all.

posted by Troosha on May 22, 2008 at 10:48 AM | link to this | reply

Absolutely not! I'd never put up with me.
Sheesh!  A) don't feel like cooking very often, picky about food. and 2) always has to be right about everything.  (The fact that I'm often right is beside the point. Who needs a know-it-all?)  and to top it off, I live too much in my own head. 

posted by Pat_B on May 22, 2008 at 9:42 AM | link to this | reply

I would probably not marry myself, as I am not my type. I like a complementary relationship. However, while I try my best, I know full well that I am not perfect. Thus, I do not expect another person to be perfect either.

posted by jmh256 on May 22, 2008 at 9:13 AM | link to this | reply