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Telynor
I've thought about the "other woman" in this case "J"
who doesn't know what's going on. But whatever she has
with RS, it was enough to keep her interested all these years
and visa versa. Would she have had a better life if she
had known the "truth" about him? I don't know. I think
at this point, if she found out it would be devasting.
posted by
Cynthia
on November 3, 2003 at 5:07 AM
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It's a touchy subject.
I think that if you and your partner can agree to be open and honest, that's great. And it was pretty hard for you to face up to the fact that RS was a liar and a cheat. Being that I was on the opposite side of the fence for years, I'll confess to being biased about the topic. But I do applaud this post for its frankness.
posted by
telynor
on November 3, 2003 at 12:44 AM
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Cynthia, I'm not sure it was me who said TV bored her, that was Crabby
Some of it is pretty boring, but I do like a good flick...
posted by
Ariala
on November 2, 2003 at 7:33 PM
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Cynthia:
The lying always complicates things. If you decide to live a lifestyle consisting of "open relationships", I'd think the only way to do it is to be honest about it. Otherwise, as you say, you are a liar and a cheat, no matter how you try to justify it. Besides, it must be a terribly stressful way to live, lying all the time. Better to be honest with everyone involved, I'd say.
posted by
WonkyWordsMistress
on November 2, 2003 at 7:12 PM
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Ariala, I think I read on one of your posts
that television bores you. Same for me.
So I had to make my life interesting enough
so I wouldn't have to to turn it on.
posted by
Cynthia
on November 2, 2003 at 7:10 PM
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What a soap opera...who needs Days of Our Lives, huh? hehehe
posted by
Ariala
on November 2, 2003 at 5:38 PM
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