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friendship, slowly you become the you.......understanding u is very important and as well as others....love is never conditional, when you love some one, love them as them.......so you don't feel that bad......
posted by
Star5_
on April 24, 2008 at 6:28 AM
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You obviously have a good head on your shoulders and with that, keep it up! Your relationship sounds like mine. Although reversed, she grew up in a similar situation and pushes love away when it gets too tough, or as you put it, hurt them before they hurt me. I call it fear. That may or may not be the case. But you are doing great and you both will have one heck of a relationship after all is said and done. To me, also, if it's worth fighting for...it's worth fighting for.
Good luck!
posted by
SomeoneElse
on April 20, 2008 at 10:26 AM
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Maybe, my friend, she understands you too well. She has a past, too. How does she
understand love? I think perhaps trust is more important than love. Bonding with
others is a hard thing to do. You're dealing with two pasts of different situations. My
prayers are with you. I'm living with a dry drunk myself. He's like Jeckle and Hyde, trusts
no one even after ten years of sobriety.
posted by
Winged
on April 20, 2008 at 10:19 AM
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I think that fighting for happiness will evoke understanding and deeper love. I was raised in an alcoholic family, then married one. It is only in the last decade I have begun to grasp the world. You are young so hold fast to making love a finite situation! sam
posted by
sam444
on April 20, 2008 at 5:32 AM
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posted by
__Purple_Mermaid11__
on April 20, 2008 at 5:27 AM
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