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Klampet,
Although I respect Ariala, I have a different point of view. How important was this person to you? Did you genuinely love her? Was she your age? Younger? Was immaturity a factor, in other words? I think that a man your age should be able to take charge of the situation. First decide whether or not the relationship was a mistake in the first place. If it wasn't, then the smart thing to do, in my book, is to forget about the fight. A lover's quarrel is always that. Something that only happens between LOVERS! You don't have these kinds of problems with the guys at work because you DON'T love them. Right? As I have suggested in one of my blogs, once a person is on to this fact, they can decide to be the mature one, and make the relationship work, overcoming every fallout by not expecting the other person to always respond "appropriately" with apologies and admissions of guilt, etc... It doesn't matter. She loved you enough to scream her head off at you, didn't she? So, if she never coughs up an "I'm sorry," maybe she was never apologized to by men. Maybe she can't help it.
posted by
TARZANA
on November 2, 2003 at 7:46 AM
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Klampet, I say stay away from her...
If you're finding healing and you're okay with the way things are with you, without her, then why complicate your life again? Nah, you don't need her. Just my two cents worth. 
posted by
Ariala
on October 31, 2003 at 3:50 PM
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