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Impressive Saul
You sound like my father. He got drunk at his bachelor party and called in sick with a hangover the next day. That was 1957. He retired in 1999. Never missed another day.

posted by jollyjeff on March 15, 2008 at 12:26 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks Melody
so I may have major depression and general anxiety disorder. And I was never even in the military. (major, general, get it huh, huh get it)

posted by jollyjeff on March 15, 2008 at 12:24 PM | link to this | reply

Check it out, jj. The only time I have ever missed work was to apply for
jobs at other places (and that only a couple times in 25 years) and a couple times for funerals and such.  In 25 years, I have never missed work due to sickness.  And I hate going to work... always have...

posted by saul_relative on March 15, 2008 at 10:25 AM | link to this | reply

Hey there music man...

you may suffer from general anxiety disorder and the pills your therapist recommends may help out when you are in a cycle.   Combine the pills with positive thoughts, ambience, and some music.   Melody

P.S.  Remember "Guilty feet have not rhythm."

posted by CunningLinguist on March 14, 2008 at 5:39 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks Troosha
I've had my present therapist since 1/07 and I think she has helped me. Though I don't think she believes me when I say my moods are weather related. I'm sort of tempted to try another one but I'm not sure another one would do any better. I think changing Drs of any kind is usually a bad idea unless there's a compelling reason--and there isn't in my case

posted by jollyjeff on March 14, 2008 at 2:41 PM | link to this | reply

Jolly
Sometimes the professionals can (or should) only raise the questions and it's up to us to find the answers as to why we feel anxious or depressed.  A good therapist, however, should be able to lead you down the right path.  If that's not happening you should try another.  I did and the second one I found did an excellent job of helping me help myself and yes, even find some answers.

posted by Troosha on March 14, 2008 at 1:20 PM | link to this | reply