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She's street smart on how to get rid of the other girl in Daddy's life.
If he doesn't watch out he'll be on his own cos she'll leave him when it suits her for a younger version. As for you darlin' run far and fast. This is not a happy place for you to be.
posted by
Kabu
on March 5, 2008 at 10:05 PM
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It seems that...
...this Diva doesn't want any woman in her father's life except herself. Judging from what you wrote, she also created friction with the stepmother. Maybe, she doesn't want any stepmother. She'll only settle for her real mother, in which case, she should go live with
her. But, judging from the dynamics that you related, that isn't going to happen. You need to have a heart-to-heart with your man and let him know that you can't live in a home, where you're disrespected and de-valued. Then the ball will be in his court to "be a man" and talk with his daughter. I can understand if she had been close to her stepmother, then, she could proudly display both pictures. But, to de-value you like that, simply should not happen, while your living in that home. How your boyfriend handles this will say alot about how much he values you. Not that anyone should come before his daughter, but, the line has to be drawn at mutual respect. Best of luck and keep us posted!
posted by
metalrat
on March 5, 2008 at 5:24 PM
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Your mental health is important. I don't see how you can ever attain this state when it is quite obvious the lass is not going to leave you alone. You deserve a nurturing relationship. There are too many negative factors here for either adult to be successful in this relationship. You need to do what is best for you. sam
posted by
sam444
on March 5, 2008 at 11:52 AM
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