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Re: Some of your rhetoric is really scary
Thanks! I can't help how you perceive things! Maybe you measure things in that beautiful laboratory in your mind. In there you probably hear angels singing. I don't. I have walked the walk, thank you! Maybe you should explore Earth a little!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 10, 2008 at 1:37 PM
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Some of your rhetoric is really scary
Surely you can hear yourself - some of it sounds a little paranoid - the ranting and raving of a mad person. It is obvious you are mad at feminists - but all this talk about Satan and the big evil - oh please.
posted by
Rhisiart_Inside_Out
on March 10, 2008 at 1:01 PM
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Re: Prayers.....
Thanks Wigopa! I appreciate your understanding!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 9:35 PM
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Prayers.....
are with you on what has happened in your past. I understand where you come from in this. I had many misgiving about men from past occurances, you are right to say that we must move on. You are still bringing things into the light. Continue to do this, I have a funny feeling this will help you.
posted by
Wigopa_
on March 5, 2008 at 8:36 PM
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ger musser
Thank you for best wishes. I lived to breathe the next breath. Now I live to just have my peace and quiet. I am 54 1/2 years old. I have had to fight and support myself. Work would be just another battleground. I have nothing. I always am last hired and first fired. I have to start from scratch everytime. I did everything right, even spiritually, and this bunch of stupid people gave me a nightmare! They will pay!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 7:23 PM
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patmanplus
LOL! you do know how to get in trouble. The last manager I had, tried to 'catch' me. So much sexual harassment. She failed then fired me, lying through her teeth. And she is half my age! Dumb ass!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 7:15 PM
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Patmanplus
Thanks! As I recall Christ asked his father to forgive them. On another occasion, he did it himself. I cannot pretend to be of Christ's greatness and assume that I can unwrite karma. Let others indulge in this self-promotion. Who do wrong, its their funeral. I try to tell them not to, but what can I do if they insist. I won't take part in the tresspass/forgive game either. The so-called Lords Prayer does ask God to forgive us as we forgive the tresspasses of others. This same prayer says that God is in heaven, not everywhere! So I cannot accept that! Evil people usually like forgiveness because they 'think' that they escape scott free. Its not real, just a thought!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 7:12 PM
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Re: How are you
I'm fine thanks, writerspirit! Glad you read!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 7:02 PM
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Sinome
Thanks! I must say that I cannot make my points or derive any principles unless I give some evidence. I have been through a good VS evil battle and the first hand evidence of my own life backs up my conclusions. I do present other evidence as necessary. The people I live with are feminists and I have no close friends. The latter is not my major problem. There are feminists who are still blocking doors to my future. The moment I'm outside, i stick out like a sore thumb. They know me and I know them. Sorry about the writing. I write mostly spontaneously, trying to fit everything in 4 paragraphs. A rewrite will come before I try to publish. This writing is only a skeleton around which flesh will be added later!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 7:00 PM
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Samantha39
Thank you!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:48 PM
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Sam444
Thanks Sam! Blame...is your word. I have no doubts about guilt and I don't second-guess myself. I write as a first hand experiencer/witness. I don't sit in an armchair making this up. I don't, therefore, know what you mean by 'introspective enough'. Neither do I care to deviate from what I have written. Equality is not the issue here. When evil people do bad things to other people, regardless of gender, magnanimity becomes a redundant issue. If you mean I should not point my finger, then I say look carefully....all fingers and toes are pointing!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:47 PM
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OK, my boss hollered at me, i hollered back. Guess who took the fall? Not her.
Took a $75 a weekly cut in pay, transfered to another department; with a stress reduction that has been worth it...
whatever.
posted by
Sudanym_
on March 5, 2008 at 6:46 PM
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Dear Dave, I am so sorry you have had these horrendous experiences. I pray that you will have peace in your life and nurturing associates, not the satans or feminists of which you speak. We are souls in pain for reasons unmentionable many times. At least you are able to get the venom out of your system. I am one who has been attacked because I stand on principle...I avoid the association with evildoers. My prayer for you...experience love, peace, hope, faith and avoid all of the miseries and miserables of life. The old adage...life is too short. Not much consolation, I know.
Ger
posted by
ger_musser
on March 5, 2008 at 6:41 PM
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majesticvisions
I did visit and read. Inspiring stuff is always welcome. My cut-down begins at home. My only hope is to move. Without a job, that is difficult. Out in the world, I keep seeing the same kind of cruddy people. I am trying. Thanks!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:39 PM
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i believe the truest form of spirituality is to FORGIVE, no matter what, (you see, "spiritual" people always have "exceptions").
This is true religion: Do the right thing: no matter what.
That's what go CHRIST crucified. for.
posted by
Sudanym_
on March 5, 2008 at 6:38 PM
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Re: Dave, sweetie, whilst your point is very well taken,
Thanks Maria! The evil exists independent of me. They remind me when I try to get out of this hole. There is a feminist manager in a company who tried to get me fired last time I worked there! I quit. I went back but my female friend knows this and told me to wait until managers get fixed schedules. That way she can put me on a safe shift. My female friends here know that kind. Evil knows me and I know them. It is strange but true!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:35 PM
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Taps
Thanks! I was simply stating why they attacked me. Their method was flawed. Then I gave tips on surviving similar attacks with some hints on the true nature of feminism. Its not really Hinduism. Most Hindus are not like me. What I write about the dark side and soul is true! I know this practically and used it to survive! Thanks for your good wishes. As soon as I can get past the few feminists who still block my solutions, I will be OK!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:28 PM
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Re: my dear soul_Builder....
Thanks Purple M! I am so sorry that nasty people hurt you. I have other female friends who have been victims. Though I didn't detail the litany of crimes committed against me, I do have those notes. Usually the predators give the orders and the feminists enforce them. Yet, this is not necessary. No-one here can imagine the suffering the inflicted on me. It doesn't make me bitter or mad. I told them they would have to pay and deep down I know its true! Its the dark side people who will pay... only they have the guilt within. Just keep living as best you can. That's what I'm doing. They do gloat about their conquests. After that joy, the old people say, it will be sorrow!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:21 PM
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elysianfields
Thanks Elyse! That was some nightmare! It hasn't quite ended yet. Some feminists in key places are messing things up for me! I will just have to go around them. Going thru them is an option too! I want peace and quiet for myself in my old age. They just took all the best years of my life ...33 of them and counting!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 6:00 PM
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Re: hello
Hi! 7stars! I was expecting to see one of your classics here! It'll come!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on March 5, 2008 at 5:55 PM
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How are you
your honesty is to be appreciated, intresting read
posted by
Thomas_Cornish
on March 5, 2008 at 5:12 PM
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So you see evil in more places than most, that is your perogative Soul, and I validate your feelings. Only you know what you have gone through in your life, where you have learned from and what you have learned. I do see a lot of hurt in your words. I don't know much about you, nothing really, just what you choose to share with us in your beautiful and interesting writings, I have no idea if you have someone there with you, but if you don't perhaps you should address your concerns with someone "fleshy", in person I mean. Blogit is a great medium, but it does not and can not offer a warm hug or a pat in the back. I think perhaps that would help you about now, someone to listen to you while they look into your eyes. So there are my two cents, Relax and fine someone that you can share all these theories with, even if you have to go to a professional listener. We here do listen and we care about you, each of us in their own special way, but it ain't the same, if you know what I mean. You are brilliant and so talented my friend, remember that when the light is too bright we go and get a lamp shade, and that is what you need as I see it, someone to filter your brilliant thoughts and file them in a way all others can understand.
Take care of you 
posted by
Sinome
on March 5, 2008 at 3:03 PM
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posted by
Samantha39
on March 5, 2008 at 11:19 AM
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I think placing blame is not introspective enough. I believe in equality for everyone ! sam
posted by
sam444
on March 5, 2008 at 6:20 AM
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Not sure I totally understand exactly what this all means, but I always tells my nieces and nephews that you have to believe in yourself. You have to take care of yourself, because nobody else is going to do it for you. I have always been very independent, and though it hurts sometimes what people do and say to me....I typically just think to myself, well I believe in myself, and that's what counts. I don't care if someone else doesn't like me. There are the ones with the problem, not me!!! I like myself, and that's the bottom line. I have to take care of me, and that's the bottom line! Hope maybe that helps some. Check out also a couple of things I posted on back on 2/12 about Remember and on 2/8 pick your chin up soldier:
1) Blog posted 2/12/08 - “Remember”:
2) Blog Posted 2/8/08:
Hope all works out for you!
posted by
majesticvisions
on March 5, 2008 at 4:12 AM
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Dave, sweetie, whilst your point is very well taken,
perhaps you need to take your attention away for a while..... energy flows where attention goes........ perhaps you see so much evil because it truly exists for you as you focus so much on it... peace and many blessings my friend
posted by
mariaki
on March 5, 2008 at 2:45 AM
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Soul_Builder, I am afraid that I don't understand most of this. Perhaps its because I am not versed in the principles of your Hindi religion. I do understand that you are and have been experiencing personal pain and loss, probably for quite some time. I wish for you peace and well being.
posted by
TAPS.
on March 5, 2008 at 12:14 AM
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my dear soul_Builder....
i have always admired you for your convictions and idealisms dear...and highly respect you for them....forgive me my dear, i'm kind of lost here somewhere...i understand you've been thru unimaginable time(s) with some...but does that speak for the entirety of God's creation dear? I believe i have laid out "one" of mine here...(not proud neither ashamed dear) but may i share dea soul that it wasnt just 'once' i've been badly hurt and terrorized by may i call "male chauvinist" (forgive my term dear...i dont even use the term Big "S" or utter)..moving on, do i deserve that? looking at me or my pictures may say a woman flirty or coming on' type of woman i may seem to most, but i'm typically shy and very discrete by manners dear...i was a helpless little girl been terrorized twice, (11 yrs old/18yrs old)..by men honoring their lust...few years back on my way home 3 men tried to abduct me for looking gorgeous (so they said they've been eyeing for months) i fought for my life and got away but just the same i was badly hurt, all bruised and brutalized, i married another monstrous 'man' in deceiving sheep's clothing, treated him like a king but possesiveness almost killed me ...i smile at everyone, welcome people like they are friends from childhood...i dont judge nor condemn anyone just by looking at them..i dont hurt anyone (at least not intended) libran's trait to be fair to all...but was i spared by those "S's" you call dear? maybe i never learned, coz yet still i dont look at men the way i should have seen those monsters in my real/reel life...no, i never felt ill to all men the way i should have...mistake of one is not the mistake of all...i hated what happened to me...cant move on on countless times...but still everyone is treated fairly and judge them only when proven worthy of misdemeanor label...sorry dear one...i feel awful battling your perception on this or am i battling or just sharing dear...it hurts me more than it hurts you to see how cruel some people can be...i have a little boy and a beautiful little girl i'm so afraid to suffer the same fate i have...but still i lift it up to HIM...and to my faith...nothing will be given to us which we cannot handle in the process of life...i've been thru all that but i'm still here writing to you my dear and being able to share those horrible chaos i've been thru goes to prove i 'manhandled' the cruelty of some...and so have you my dearest one...as for me it's enough to get going...i just dont want those bitter encounters make a bitter person out of me and curse the beauty of nature and life...i am so sorry for this sooo long (what can i call this?)...sorry love....peace dear.
posted by
__Purple_Mermaid11__
on March 4, 2008 at 11:37 PM
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I do agree the soul is sexless. I am sorry you have undergone such a tremendous, horrific feat and battle in this life. I hope Peace for you, dear Poet, dear Soul...
Elyse ~ and please keep writing. You have a lot to speak of and say from your heart.
posted by
elysianfields
on March 4, 2008 at 11:11 PM
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hello
posted by
star4sky5
on March 4, 2008 at 10:05 PM
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