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StrickGold
Relationships are so very complex. I wish for you and your's the best. 
posted by
jacentaOld
on March 5, 2008 at 10:22 AM
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Awe Geeze
I knew you and I had a connection but you didn't want to hear of it. I could smell this coming, for you are me and I you. I have at least 100 letters such as this one you wrote to Sparky. I put my life on hold in the name of
'true love' for over a decade
after a terrible marriage of 20 years. My letters/your letters, in all honesty, an honesty I refused to see as such for over a decade, are attempts at making you the bad person, the one with too much garbage for your man to handle, hoping that the love of your life will feel bad and come crawling back with roses and apologies. Sister, it doesn't work this way. Our children
ALWAYS come first...or should. I too gave up my children and grand princess in order to stay where my love's home was/is. You have no idea how much you and I have in common and I as a woman would not steer another woman wrong. The only thing I did differently than you was after falling in love with a man with children, I learned a very hard lesson, his children came first and so did mine. There was no middle ground and so I fell in love with another man without children and I gave up mine to be with him. Geeze, we gotta learn, the middle ground has to be present before we make a move on our chess board of life. I am currently in therapy for many things, but mostly for trying to understand myself and my moves on my chess board of life that have caused me terrible grief. I do wish you peace, comfort and all that a woman should want and need but you gotta get it on your own first especially after a 23 year hell mate. Blah, blah, blah. I'm with you and if you ever need to talk or just spit and spill I'm here for you.
posted by
SEEDLINGS
on March 4, 2008 at 1:39 PM
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Goldie
I am so sorry to read of this, you've had enough trouble in your life my friend. You shall stay in my prayers my friend, and try not to isolate yourself, write to us anytime if that will help my friend. Nurture your own kind heart and open mind and life and love will work out. Peace luv.†
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 4, 2008 at 9:50 AM
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