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I sympathize with you.....it sucks at the moment.
posted by
one2get2no
on March 8, 2008 at 7:36 AM
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well you got some great advice from others
and all i can add is go with your gut and what you say goes...lay down that law and if he doesnt like it call your friends or someone to help you get him out
posted by
quietguy7
on March 5, 2008 at 2:50 AM
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Well my dear
You have allowed this relationship to go as it has for sometime, it has been faltering for you when he had no clue ...because you let him be the big baby his mother has always kept him as.
NO, you must say 'NO, this relationship is no longer on your terms only, we had a deal, you wanna make it convenient for you but for once it's all about me baby and you are out this weekend...or tonight. Let me help you pack.' You see he's not dragging his feet you are by allowing him to call all the shots. Stand up woman, you have friends and you have Blogitville which is an entire army behind you. Don't back down and don't you dare let him stand over your shoulder watching your every move because now he hasn't a clue who you are. You are both at fault here but the fact is you want out and your going to get your wish and believe it or not there
IS someone out there for you. Maybe not tomorrow or next week, but there is a wonderful person in your future who will think that you are his queen and you will always come first in his eyes. Woman to woman, Trust me on this one.
posted by
SEEDLINGS
on March 4, 2008 at 1:49 PM
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Take back control of your life. He is hoping you will change your mind, he needs to go today. There is never a Friday, only a delayed excuse! sam
posted by
sam444
on March 4, 2008 at 5:32 AM
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Re: STAND YOUR GOUND YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF!
You are right . . . just pissed about it all . . . don't like being jacked with . . . don't like that I have allowed it all these years.
posted by
flappergirl
on March 3, 2008 at 8:59 PM
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STAND YOUR GOUND YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF!
posted by
Thomas_Cornish
on March 3, 2008 at 8:52 PM
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The first breath after the exodus
Girl...you gonna be fine. That first few days of wandering around will pass, the months it has taken you to get to here will fly away, and that first REAL breath....better than sex
posted by
EmmaCunnan
on March 3, 2008 at 8:27 PM
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