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Its totally normal!!!
Second thoughts, guilt, even sweet thoughts about the way it used to be when it was nice, its all normal and you should ignore it. You need space. He must give it to you. That is that. Good luck sweetie, and about the 10 pounds... congratulations, you can always gain them later when you dine out with the many guys that will love to take out an intelligent and talented girl like you. TAke care :-)
posted by
Sinome
on February 19, 2008 at 5:27 PM
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you shouldnt feel guilty at all
i would imagine you only feel that because of all the brainwashing he has done to you with the controlling behavior but the truth is this is THE BEST THING to do and it is THE RIGHT THING to do too...i can imagine its one of if not the hardest things youve done so ill continue to pray for you and hope God can bless you with the necessary strength and help keep satan out of your head who will give you all those doubts
posted by
quietguy7
on February 19, 2008 at 12:43 PM
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Interesting you should ask. Yes, I have been going to a marriage counselor for the past two years by myself and he has refused to go . . . until now. He just didn't realize we were to this point.
posted by
flappergirl
on February 19, 2008 at 12:24 PM
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My friend, have you thought of speaking with a counselor? I know one could help gain skills to be more confident. It is not an easy road but due to migraine so debilitating I have one to help me sort out real and unreal. sam
posted by
sam444
on February 19, 2008 at 11:55 AM
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Take care ! Thanks !
posted by
afzal50
on February 19, 2008 at 7:59 AM
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Most likely I am. Thanks for pointing that out.
posted by
flappergirl
on February 19, 2008 at 7:32 AM
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Same-o, Same-o
Are you sure you're not assuming some of his guilt, for whatever reason? It's done, you know. joab
posted by
joab1
on February 19, 2008 at 7:28 AM
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