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As long as you talk to him about "he said, she said" issues,
as long as you let him see your sympathy for him, as long as he's in your vicinity, this will continue. Drama, guilt feelings, anxiety, self-doubt: these are our "rewards" for kindness, for putting someone else's welfare ahead of our own.
posted by
Pat_B
on February 13, 2008 at 7:47 AM
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Re: It's a matter of trust ...
very good song. I just read the lyrics - very good.
posted by
flappergirl
on February 12, 2008 at 5:33 PM
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It's a matter of trust ...
Billy Joel sings.
posted by
BC-A
on February 12, 2008 at 5:27 PM
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Only you can decide when enough is enough! You two seem to be distancing each other with mistrust and innuendo. Best of luck. sam
posted by
sam444
on February 12, 2008 at 9:25 AM
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Very nice
posted by
Kayzzaman
on February 12, 2008 at 8:55 AM
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Re: Flap
You are so right, but I stopped hoping he'd change long ago . . . giving him the deadline was really more about me trying to be nice and give him time to process all of this.
"He's on to you." You couldn't have said it any better. My concern is that I'll end up in the same predicament with someone else somewhere down the road. I am smart and most times wise . . . but not in matters of the heart. I am trusting and want the best for the people I love (often times feeling if I assert myself on the things that I want will make me a selfish bitch).
Thanks for your comments and support.
posted by
flappergirl
on February 12, 2008 at 8:55 AM
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Flap
Letting him stay so long was your way of hoping that he'd change by the dead line. I know, I've done this many times. You want to keep your word. I did too. But here's the deal. He's on to you, he's not about to change (Obviously) so don't worry about keeping your word, worry about keeping your dignity.
posted by
SEEDLINGS
on February 12, 2008 at 7:58 AM
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