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                    Not easy..
                
                If we used to think that having a strong will, patience, determination and perseverance in going through the struggle of life was not easy.. Now it is time to learn that sticking together, lifting each other up and being there for someone in need is even less easy! Because, even trying to listen without judging can be a great challenge sometimes.. You are really making me looking into myself. Thanks, Dave. And I'm ready for your part 3.
                
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                    orcalion
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                           Very impressive posting! Do you think that some people who seem positive most of the time are really knowledgeable about the evils existing all around them and yet they choose to shine light with the hope that light will reach the darkness?
        Very impressive posting! Do you think that some people who seem positive most of the time are really knowledgeable about the evils existing all around them and yet they choose to shine light with the hope that light will reach the darkness?  
   
                
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                    BrightIrish
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                    My My do we have indigestion yet?  Good observations
                
                
                
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                    Shams-i-Heartsong
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                    Ghandi is one of my all time hero's and I do believe that by starting peace
                
                within one's own self is where it must begin. Yes, add positive thinking to this and there is no limit to how far one's light can shine. Then sprinkle it with love and patience for all people and all god's creatures share his resources equally, and you eliminate hate and despair. = no more war. It's really quite simple!
                
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                    Kabu
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                    like always interesting read
                
                i guess after breaking the pos/neg down like you have it is evident that its not really necessary to buy into the positive mentality but i do believe that simply trying to b more optimistic leads to a better life and overall feeling of well being but the true source of all of that is God and yes the Bible does not mention that and the bottom line is God will provide not necessarily in regards to money but more importantly love and help with our problems and afterall the ultimate goal preached by people like napoleon hill is amassing money and truly you can ONLY serve God or money NOT both and i will always serve the former and let Him guide me and loved the last sentence that wrapped it up nicely
                
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                    quietguy7
                     on February 2, 2008 at 2:08 AM
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                    soulbuilder101
                
                the last group of people are there because a lot of them want to be its easier to be out on the street with your hand out or walking into the welfare department to live off the government then making a better life for themself and their families

  and you are negative, but I am still your temptress
 
                
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                    Lanetay
                     on February 2, 2008 at 12:18 AM
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                    Re: Sitaram Bhaijee
                
                Namaste Neil! Glad to see you up and around! Hope the Part 2 was readable. Did you get those links I sent for you?
                
                    posted by
                    Soul_Builder101
                     on February 1, 2008 at 9:09 PM
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                    Justi
                
                Never cottoned to pos/neg philosophy. Took years but I found out why!!! Thanks!!
                
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                    lestate7
                
                Thanks! Talk to the boss for me, I need a raise!!! LOL!
                
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                    Re: Awesome post, and right on the money                                   
                
                Thanks David!!!
                
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                    Soul_Builder101
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                    Sam444 
                
                Thanks Sam! Glad you think so!
                
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                    Re: And a monster this is...I'm interested to know
                
                I wish I could answer your questions. You see, when this fad came out, I rejected it outright and continued dealing with people and circumstances in the same old way. I do not think in terms like you are writing here. I live simply! Making lemonade out of lemons is part of pos/neg philosophy. If a problem comes up I deal with it! I don't think of them as lemons. My advice is look and see what is right in front of you and deal with that. No need to go through all kinds of mental distress in figuring if you're doing the right thing. If you are not hurting anybody unjustly, it is ok! If you can't help others, thats ok too! Thanks!
                
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                     on February 1, 2008 at 9:02 PM
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                    Soul builder 101
                
                You put so much effort into your writing here, it is from deep study and thought. This is very well written. I am very wealthy in Spirit only and that is enough. Be blessed. 
                
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                    Awesome post, and right on the money                                       
                
                Especially the last paragraph.
                
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                The last, smallest sentence had the greatest impact!  sam
                
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                    And a monster this is...I'm interested to know
                
                if you see any positive in the negative?  I'm also a very positive person, and wonder what my responsibility is in shouldering any negative forces in my era...they might be a great distance away, but am I responsible to make "lemonade out of lemons"?  I used to think my contribution was to make positives in the lives of others as a family member and community member.  Now I'm wondering (in the last eight years especially), if I create positives, am I also responsible to "even the score" by creating a negative to go along with me positive, eg make my bed in the morning and leave a small corner of the bedding unturned to signify that I am not taking all of the positive energy...I'm leaving some of that positive energy for someone else.  Is there validity in this thinking?  I am seeing this among people of social conscience.  At least they are not plundering and taking someone else's positive energy, leaving injury to that person who now has to struggle with negative energy only, eg have no blankets covering them during an icy winter night.  Thank you for provoking my thoughts again!!
                
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                    ger_musser
                     on February 1, 2008 at 5:07 PM
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