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thank you all very much-- you are so true. And i guess i'm not the only one to go through this! and maybe you are right, maybe he is just puffing it up a bit to get a reaction. thank you! this too shall pass :)
posted by
TheWifey
on January 25, 2008 at 8:58 AM
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wifey, tough situation right, here to handle................from my view...
HOW MANY GOOD BOYS YOU KNOW IN YOUR LIFE WITH OUT A MISTAKE?????????
PAST IS PAST.....HE WASN"T MARRIED TO YOU.......
PRESENT IS THE ONLY THING YOU NEED TO MANAGE........
Dress up beautiful, smile very attractive, keep yourself beautiful, love him like he never had it and things will go so smooth.....
Don't ask or comment about past.....Just listen and if some thing really have to take care, may be he need a counselor........
Some guys bluff about past.......Don't break your heart for that.....AS LONG AS HE IS WITH IN STANDARDS NOW< YOU SHOULDN"T WORRY.....
posted by
star4sky5
on January 24, 2008 at 8:19 PM
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Wifey
I think we have to place faith in the person we met - the person they evolved into by the time our paths crossed - rather than think about the things they did in the past. Sometimes that's easier said than done but you wouldn't have fallen in love with him if he was still involved in his
bad boys ways. If it makes you uncomfortable to hear about some of those past escapades, just let him know.
posted by
Troosha
on January 24, 2008 at 8:05 PM
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Oh, I wouldn't worry too much!
Only a few people go through what you are going through right now, and thinking like you are right now. Like 99.98 % of us!
posted by
David1Spirit
on January 24, 2008 at 7:53 PM
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