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Thanks for the great advice, taps. I will take it.
posted by
wana_phils
on January 23, 2008 at 7:47 PM
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Wana_Phils
It is all right to keep loving your father. You only hurt yourself if you try to take on the problems of your father and mother. Give them both all the love and support that you can without encouraging them in wrong or hurtful actions. Everyone has their own special set of circumstances and they do the best they can with what they have to contend with.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 23, 2008 at 7:36 PM
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Thanks for stopping by, soul b.
posted by
wana_phils
on January 23, 2008 at 2:17 AM
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Thanks for your time, afzal.
posted by
wana_phils
on January 23, 2008 at 2:16 AM
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So, your dad also cheated on your mom - another thing that we have in common, QG.
Take care
posted by
wana_phils
on January 23, 2008 at 2:12 AM
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Thanks so much for the advice, LS. Well-taken. I agree, you Filipino males are like that --- the macho type.
posted by
wana_phils
on January 23, 2008 at 2:08 AM
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posted by
Soul_Builder101
on January 22, 2008 at 10:10 PM
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posted by
afzal50
on January 22, 2008 at 6:07 PM
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perplexing dilemma
well my father was cheating on my mom but i was too young to know what was going on but fortunately my mom found out so i guess for now see if your mom picks up on anything and try not to confront him jus yet and i can understand how you still love your dad cuz i still love mine since even though he did those things he still provided for us
posted by
quietguy7
on January 22, 2008 at 5:05 PM
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You know how we Filipino males are- the macho type. You mentioned that it may be because your dad is getting that feeling young again.
But that is not your question- either you confront him or not is your dilemna. What about your mom? Doesn't she know yet or is pretending not to know because of the same reasons?
Maybe you can try to raise your antennae first and check your mom's sentiments. If she knows and is getting hurt, then you can confront; otherwise, if it is okay with her, I believe the issue is between your mom and dad's.
And consider first the consequences of your actions; if you can face the worst possible thing that could happen, then go for it.
posted by
leaderspeaker
on January 22, 2008 at 4:17 PM
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