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Offy
thank you
posted by
Lanetay
on January 4, 2008 at 8:52 PM
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lilane...I think you made a noble decision!!!
posted by
Offy
on January 4, 2008 at 7:40 PM
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StrickGold
I have no grand babies but the youngest who is the 21 year old I tell her she gets pregant without a daddy dont expect me to raise it, I have been raising kids for 40 years
posted by
Lanetay
on January 4, 2008 at 6:02 PM
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Kabu
that is kind of you considering all you have gone through
posted by
Lanetay
on January 4, 2008 at 6:00 PM
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Things happen for a reason
at 40, I am already a grandma and about to be again. I had 3 1/2 months of being a full time mom of an infant when I had custody of my then 9 month old granddaughter. The body gets tired more quickly now than when I was a mother at 20
posted by
StrickGold
on January 4, 2008 at 12:43 PM
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You talk about my courage but boy are you one gutsy lady. Your daughter
should think about your love for her and your bravery in keeping her raising her and loving her. Well done sweetie.
posted by
Kabu
on January 4, 2008 at 12:27 PM
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SEEDLINGS
I always say she was born for a reason, since she was born the day after my dads birthday and she never saw her grandpa, he died when she was about 2 years old
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 10:22 PM
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7stars
Wow, echoing my life once again. I too became pregnant at a very late age...I thought I was unable to have children, for goodness sakes I had a grand child and had been care free with my new love (who later became my husband) Neither of us wanted children and so when I discovered that it wasn't the flue I was afflicted with, well I was confused oh so briefly and then I realized it was an act of God...and I became full of life literally. I lost that child...and now all these years later I look back and wonder as we all do about many things in life, 'what was that all about?' I'm glad things worked out the way they did for I am divorced from that man and wow-wee we just had two different ideas on just about everything...I can't imagine raising a child with him, but this has turned into my own post, so I shall just say, wow, I can really identify with this post.
posted by
SEEDLINGS
on January 3, 2008 at 9:41 PM
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7stars
no need to worry
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 8:37 PM
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Re: 7stars: HAHAHA......" please don't do it again like that, just take
precautions".......hahaha......u made me laugh so loud.....
posted by
star4sky5
on January 3, 2008 at 8:23 PM
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7stars
Now you sound like my kid
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 8:18 PM
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You should have known better.......HAHAHAHA..........
posted by
star4sky5
on January 3, 2008 at 8:09 PM
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Whacky
no you sure dont
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 7:12 PM
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TAPS
my older daughter loved the fact I got pregnant she always wanted a baby brother or sister and she did a lot of the raising of her
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 7:11 PM
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ZenMom
sounds like at least you got lucky with the current husband
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 7:10 PM
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shelly
my son still riches for a child someday
posted by
Lanetay
on January 3, 2008 at 7:08 PM
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I guess you never know what life has in store for you.
A rose and a smile
from me and you know who =^..^= woof!
posted by
Whacky
on January 3, 2008 at 7:06 PM
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lustorlove
When I was 15, my mom got pregnant at 43. She seemed too old for that to me and I was surprised to learn that mom and dad were still having sex at such an "advanced age". LOL. As it turned out, shortly after my little sister was born, my mom suffered a badly ruptured disc and could hardly walk, let alone carry around a baby. So, I practically raised her myself until I got married when she was five. I always felt like she was more my baby than my mom's. We are still very close.
posted by
TAPS.
on January 3, 2008 at 7:02 PM
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I can imagine how difficult those days must have been for you. I certainly understand what you wrote about going crazy (letting loose) after your marriage ended. I did the same thing. However, I was 36 and was sure I didn't want more children so I had my tubes tied. When I met the man I am married to now, I was afraid to tell him I couldn't have more children. When I finally did tell him, he smiled and said he had had a vasectomy years earlier. That's how I knew we were meant for one another. 
Life is strange.
Zen
posted by
ZenMom
on January 3, 2008 at 6:21 PM
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Wow...I never knew that.
I couldn't imagine having a kid now. geez..
posted by
shelly_b
on January 3, 2008 at 6:02 PM
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