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White_Elephant
LOL
Well commitment never scared me but commitment to the wrong guy... 
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 9:08 AM
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le_divorcee
You are indeed an "oh-so-wise-one" yourself!!! ....
..... of course! what the hell was I thinking? ..... your heading must have had them running for cover!!! ..... I mean that
L word is horrific to say the least ~ perhaps I should mention the
C one too, just to play it safe .....
COMMITMENT
that oughta do it!!! .... erm hmmm perhaps I shouldn't have gone that far ~ THAT word scares the shit out of me too!!! Yikes! 
posted by
White_Elephant
on October 24, 2007 at 8:25 AM
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White_Elephant
Naw, not a lot of male blogit members come into this blog, after all, the blog's title is Divorce Therapy and the post's name is "Will I ever find true love again?"
In other words, most males would run for the hills and bang themselves over their heads before even setting a toe in here... 
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 8:20 AM
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le_divorcee
EXACTLY!!!! .... let him find out by himself ~ life's full of surprises!!!
.... oh dear I'm getting that creepy feeling again ~ that feeling that if any of the male Blogitts get to read this
I'm in deep deep shit!!! .... I've already blown it with that erm hmmm painting of mine that I uploaded and now this!!!!
posted by
White_Elephant
on October 24, 2007 at 8:16 AM
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White_Elephant
Well, you are right... jeez, let him find out by himself, right?
LOL
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 8:13 AM
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le_divorcee
yes you are supposed to
lie!!!!!!!!! hell ... they do it all the time don't they? ... so that makes us even!
... mind you if you don't even tell him, then it's not even lying, because you haven't told him in the first place, right???
Now when it comes to his defects ~ well that's another story .... you should pinpoint them ONE by ONE and remind him of them all at regular intervals .... say once every 2 hours is good! ....
posted by
White_Elephant
on October 24, 2007 at 8:12 AM
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White_Elephant
ROTFL
But it's true, so what am I supposed to do lie?
I really really really liked this guy when I was 17. I was in looooove. He started coming over my house all the time and we became really good friends. One day I sat him down and told him about all my defects, "warning" him about myself.
Erm, yes, I know, I'm sort of nuts.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 8:07 AM
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le_divorcee
I think Mr. Right Later is more appropriate than Mr. RIght Now!
... you still have a lot of issues to tackle at the moment ~ like for example ...
YOU SHOULD NEVER EVER ADMIT TO A GUY THAT YOU HAVE A LOT OF DEFECTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! .... Jesus girl, are you crazy or what?????????????? .... that little bit of info is not in his interest OK? do you hear??? ....
posted by
White_Elephant
on October 24, 2007 at 7:49 AM
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Whacky
I love doggies... thanks
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 7:44 AM
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lovelyladymonk
Thanks for the hug
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 7:43 AM
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Pat_B
I would love Mr. Right Now! LOL
Naw, that never ends well. In any case, you are right. I need to finish grieving.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 7:43 AM
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Soul_Builder101
Truth is I am busier than ever
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 24, 2007 at 7:42 AM
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Yeah, that's life.
Two roses
From me and
two more from Bo ^..^ the wonder dog!!!
posted by
Whacky
on October 23, 2007 at 9:35 PM
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LD...
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on October 23, 2007 at 5:48 PM
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Actually, you've got some things to work out with yourself
and a bit of grieving to do over this divorce before you're ready for Mr. Right. Although it might be helpful to find Mr. Right Now to play around with while you're recovering.
posted by
Pat_B
on October 23, 2007 at 3:30 PM
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posted by
Amanda__
on October 23, 2007 at 2:47 PM
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Le Divorcee
Build a life for yourself. Wean yourself away from the old! Do things you always wanted to do but never had the time!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on October 23, 2007 at 1:26 PM
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Ariala
I hope so
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 23, 2007 at 10:25 AM
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I think when the time is right, the doors of love will open to you again.
posted by
Ariala
on October 23, 2007 at 10:23 AM
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Troosha
I think I'm wavering between the last two... sometimes I'm pretty good with the acceptance but then I can get a bit depressed.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 23, 2007 at 10:09 AM
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Le
It is said that divorce can be viewed as a death and as such the 5 stages of grieving apply. Maybe you’re in the depression stage but better things are yet to come.
Denial – this isn’t happening to me
Anger – why me?
Bargaining – making deal with God or a spouse
Depression – a feeling of hopelessness
Acceptance – not resignation but acceptance
posted by
Troosha
on October 23, 2007 at 9:54 AM
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FineYoungSinger
I'm sorry about that. How long has it been?
I am worrier though, 
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 23, 2007 at 9:12 AM
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richinstore
Yeah, at least. I guess I should be thankful for that?
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 23, 2007 at 9:12 AM
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When I was going through my divorce, My ex-husband did nothing to
facilitate getting my things to me. I lost everything. Glad you got your laptop.
True love will find you when you are ready for it. Don't worry.
posted by
FineYoungSinger
on October 23, 2007 at 8:59 AM
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le divorcee
at least you have your laptop now.
posted by
richinstore
on October 23, 2007 at 8:48 AM
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