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superflymom119
at least you have someone I had my older kids but she wouldnt listen to them most the time

posted by Lanetay on October 22, 2007 at 12:26 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: lustorlove...
I am 37, and both my girls try me as much as possible.  I started having kids sort of young though, turned 20 about a week and a half after my first was born.  My husband was no kind of help, still isn't as an ex-husband.  My husband now, came in a little too late to be more than a support for me, but that I appreciate.

posted by superflymom119 on October 22, 2007 at 10:10 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: lustorlove...
I dont know how old you are but I had my last one at 42 without a partner to help so i gave into her and now she thinks she is a princess she is 21 now

posted by Lanetay on October 21, 2007 at 11:29 AM | link to this | reply

Re: lustorlove...
That is also true.  Out of my three it took a different tactic to instill the proper amount of respect/fear.  Now, as older teens, they'll tell their friends no problem that I'm not to be challenged.  The know what I say goes, period, but it took different paths for each one to get there.

posted by superflymom119 on October 21, 2007 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

superflymom119
I have 3 kids each are differemt whem it comes to discipline

posted by Lanetay on October 20, 2007 at 2:19 PM | link to this | reply

Not me...
My kids are the ones who fear the wrath, but at the same time, I don't try to keep them in a prison until they turn thirty-five either.  Interesting post, a lot of truth in your commentary.

posted by superflymom119 on October 20, 2007 at 1:30 PM | link to this | reply

Sheilah
I hate it when moms say wait until your dad gets home

posted by Lanetay on October 20, 2007 at 1:25 PM | link to this | reply

I'm against child abuse, I mean real abuse.But a good spanking once
in a while may be necessary. Discipline starts in the home. My parents never hit me much (I was a good girl.LOL). My dad only spanked me once or twice... one of the times was because my mother had given me a spank in the butt and I threatened to tell my dad she hit me. She called my dad and...Well...needless to say what happened next! LOL

posted by Sheilah on October 20, 2007 at 11:44 AM | link to this | reply

offy
I dont too many kids that are disciplined they do whatever and stay out all hours of the night.  Let them hang out in the older groups that could lead down the wrong path.

posted by Lanetay on October 20, 2007 at 10:41 AM | link to this | reply

If my kids needed their butt smacked they got it and they are raising their's just like it...Around here most folks don't care if the cops come into the scene they are raising their kids according to their own set of beliefs...Most times the cops are raising theirs that same way too....

posted by Offy on October 20, 2007 at 10:33 AM | link to this | reply

spinner
its kind of late now

posted by Lanetay on October 19, 2007 at 9:09 PM | link to this | reply

I can only say this spare the rod spoil the child. soul is right it is best to start when they are young you put a few red stripes an that ass! a few times with a stern voice. it makes a world of difference. my daddy done it to me. I am better because of it. when I say jump you better ask how high and I would to /spinner 

posted by spinner on October 19, 2007 at 8:45 PM | link to this | reply

soulbuilder101
for sure

posted by Lanetay on October 19, 2007 at 8:08 PM | link to this | reply

lustor
It is crazy now! Your kids can be placed in foster homes etc. Nothing like teaching them from small!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on October 19, 2007 at 6:38 PM | link to this | reply