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Talion
Yes, thank GOD I didn't have children with him.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 1, 2007 at 7:49 AM
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Whysper
It's been my experience that the past does get dragged into the present but I have never done that unless that past is relevan to what is going on.
I'm sorry for the bad experiences you've had. I am 26 and still looking for love.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 1, 2007 at 7:48 AM
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Kabu
Well, I was a virgin when I married but yes it is true that virginity is sort of a barrier for dating. I am definitely not doing the one night stands, though. Never have.
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 1, 2007 at 7:47 AM
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Tattered_Knight
As if in if she was the one who cheated?
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 1, 2007 at 7:46 AM
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Soul_Builder101
Is that what you prefer?
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 1, 2007 at 7:46 AM
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riri0322
LOL
posted by
le_divorcee
on October 1, 2007 at 7:45 AM
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Neither my wife nor I were married previously, but if she had been, it wouldn't have mattered to me. My brother married a woman who was previously divorced. No big deal for him either. As far as I'm concerned, children from a previous relationship has the potential to be a bigger stumbling block.
posted by
Talion
on September 30, 2007 at 10:47 PM
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Well, it's better than still being married
I wouldn't hold a woman's past against her, but my experience has been that women will drag your past up and beat you over the head with it, even if it was before they met you.
Of course, I'm cynical and I've been through so many relationships that at 54 I'm not even interested in "dating", I don't want a "relationship", I have no need for "one night stands".
I look for friends and that's all I need to fill my life. I don't need another "mate" to remind me of my short comings, I already know them too well.
posted by
Whysper
on September 30, 2007 at 5:09 PM
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posted by
Amanda__
on September 30, 2007 at 5:00 PM
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beware of the one night stand types but men don't look for virgins in my
experience. Have fun, take care, and if some creep thinks divorce has tarnished you....give him a wipe off!
posted by
Kabu
on September 30, 2007 at 2:04 AM
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le divorcee
For me, it would only depend on why you were divorced.
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 30, 2007 at 12:37 AM
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Le Divorce
No previous experience! LOL!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on September 28, 2007 at 9:11 PM
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I am not male nor I am divorced-- so...
If they care, they are not worth your time!!!
posted by
riri0322
on September 28, 2007 at 3:43 PM
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afzal50
LOL, I hope you were kidding...
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 28, 2007 at 8:28 AM
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I've always liked ladies who are forlorn . All wise men like women
who are divorced or widowed .
posted by
afzal50
on September 28, 2007 at 8:21 AM
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