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Tattered_Knight
I am not planning on doing it, although it can be very hard. Communication can be so hard when there are such big barriers, right?
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le_divorcee
on September 24, 2007 at 7:06 AM
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richinstore
That is a very good question and the answer is I don't know. I think I could make it work with I had someone more responsible and compatible next to me.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 24, 2007 at 7:05 AM
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FineYoungSinger
It probably is too early. I gotta give it time
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 24, 2007 at 7:05 AM
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proc
That is a very interesting concept, bringing kids for hope. Thanks, you made me think today.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 24, 2007 at 7:04 AM
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Soul_Builder101
So you are quite the heart breaker, huh?
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 24, 2007 at 7:04 AM
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le divorce
I commend you on your values, don't compromise them. Marriage can be grand when the good outwieghs the bad. There has to be communication.
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 22, 2007 at 10:56 PM
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le divorce
forget about the ''Once bitten twice shy'' proverb. Just ask youself: " Am I ready for a second time?"
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richinstore
on September 22, 2007 at 10:29 PM
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Girl, it is just WAYYYYY too soon to even worry about this.
if after you're healed some more, and a great guy comes along, you can decide then how you want to proceed. Having no opinion on marriage right now is perfectly ok, and very healthy!
posted by
FineYoungSinger
on September 22, 2007 at 11:22 AM
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I think while you are still feeling sad and vulnerable you shouldnt be
surprised if you have negative feelings about marriage. There are so many good marriages where in spite of challenges couples would rather have the hard times together than have a good time alone. Dont compromise yourself by getting involved for the wrong reason. Keep hope f,faith and optimism alive. The sex and babies will come. As much as you may see the world as a bad place to bring kids into,kids are a sign of hope,that there is always a chance for a better tomorrow. You may think you are saving kids from a bad time. But they may be the people who bring hope and positives into this world. Who give you back the world as you'd like it to be. It may appear selfish to bring kids into the world but its also the holiest and most demanding and rewarding job in the world----to be a mum.
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proc
on September 22, 2007 at 3:19 AM
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Le Divorce
I am afraid of superficial entanglements. The bad ones just want to 'catch' you and give you hell. The ladies have stalked me all my life. But, no deal. I will stay single if I don't get what I know is good for me. That's my way!
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Soul_Builder101
on September 21, 2007 at 7:05 PM
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