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brianne_amai
I'm buying it soon
and I do think he served a purpose in my life. He helped me through the worse weeks of the divorce and for that I'm very grateful.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 8:27 AM
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sometimes
people come into our lives for a very short time, and even if it doesn't seem like it ended right, it really did. just because he wanted more doesn't mean he didn't serve his purpose in your life. Hmmmm........you know, a really good book that could help you is
YOUR ERRONEOUS ZONES. LOL Sorry....I had to do it again.... It will help you let go of the guilt and worry.
posted by
brianne_amai
on September 20, 2007 at 8:25 AM
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White_Elephant
Very true. It really wasn't the time.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 7:17 AM
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FineYoungSinger
I think I did pretty well too.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 7:17 AM
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Kabu
My biggest mistake was rushing in. I will never do it again.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 7:16 AM
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richinstore
Thanks for the advice
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 7:16 AM
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Soul_Builder101
Not having a house or a husband of my own, I definitely feel that I've simplified my life. LOL.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 7:15 AM
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-blackcat
Yes, I am no longer going to cling to any man just because I don't want to hurt him or because I like him a lot. Those are not reasons to stay in a relationship.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 20, 2007 at 7:15 AM
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pfft! men!
long distance relationships suck
amen to that! ... I think it's best if you get yourself back together again before you start another long-term relationship - so I think you did the best thing there
posted by
White_Elephant
on September 20, 2007 at 6:06 AM
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sad that he did get hurt, but I have to say "YAY FOR YOU!"
Having been exactly where you are myself, you are doing great!
posted by
FineYoungSinger
on September 20, 2007 at 5:59 AM
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take time out for yourself like I am doing. I have found the most wonderful
man but I refuse to rush to him. It's hard on us both but it takes time to get one's head in a good space after a terrible relationship ends.Good luck.
posted by
Kabu
on September 20, 2007 at 12:20 AM
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le divorce
set your goal... specify what you really want and go ahead.
posted by
richinstore
on September 19, 2007 at 7:32 PM
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Le Divorce
Simplify your life, take time off by yourself. Answers usually come when you are calm and composed!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on September 19, 2007 at 6:48 PM
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that last lesson is a good one. Learning you don't need a relationship is
important if you ever want to find a healthy one.
posted by
-blackcat
on September 19, 2007 at 4:07 PM
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