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Been there and did this twice....and I'm too old to start over (financially
speaking). It's a sad perspective but none the less, logical for me. I walked away from everything (twice)..stupid...stupid...just too emotionally overwrought to deal with fighting for material possessions. But I can't do that again. If Mr. Wonderful ever finds me loveable, I pray he will agree to separate finances, have actually even thought about duplexes (ha)...if I am ever so blessed, finances and living circumstances would need to be agreed upon. Maybe strange but it's too late in my life and I work too hard to lose again. It would also be stupid for me to allow it to happen. You're in my thoughts and prayers! ~Blessings~
posted by
roadscross
on September 13, 2007 at 12:54 PM
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Matie
Yes, it is very heartbreaking and the worst part is that he still believes that he deserves it all. Acording to him, since he was the one bringing in the "money" (even though it wasn't enough for us to keep our first home and to not get in debt), he deserves everything. He is a misserable excuse for a man.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 13, 2007 at 7:33 AM
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Ariala
He makes my poor head spin too, LOL.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 13, 2007 at 7:32 AM
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posted by
Amanda__
on September 13, 2007 at 7:09 AM
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Oh God
He gets to keep everything?! I can't even begin to imagine how heart shattering must that be. My thoughts are with you.
posted by
Matie
on September 12, 2007 at 8:26 PM
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posted by
Soul_Builder101
on September 12, 2007 at 6:51 PM
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I'm dizzy reading this! You poor girl!
posted by
Ariala
on September 12, 2007 at 5:20 PM
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Tattered_Knight
The problem is that he had to be the "petitioner" so I could wave the right to go to court and so he had to agree to the petition and sign it and then from there have the final decree.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 12, 2007 at 5:15 PM
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proc
Oh, you are right and if I had stayed to fight or had had to go back and forth I wouldn't have gotten this job that I am so happy with.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 12, 2007 at 5:14 PM
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FineYoungSinger
I had no money for a lawyer.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 12, 2007 at 5:13 PM
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le divorce
Sounds like talking is out as he keeps changing his mind. If it were me (and I have been through it) I would go ahead with the paper work and let him deal with it from there.
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 12, 2007 at 2:54 PM
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Divorce is hard without all the extra nonsense about who gets what.
no wonder so many woman remain married to their idiots.
posted by
proc
on September 12, 2007 at 2:45 PM
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girl, get that lawyer yourself.
posted by
FineYoungSinger
on September 12, 2007 at 12:48 PM
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brianne_amai
It depends on the airline, I guess. They wanted to charge him to do it, but finally they relented and just did it. You need to speak to a manager or keep trying and maybe you'll manage it.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 12, 2007 at 9:51 AM
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hey that's cool - how did your dad change the ticket? I tried transferring a ticket in someone else's name before but they said it was impossible once they've been purchased.
posted by
brianne_amai
on September 12, 2007 at 9:31 AM
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