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Miaella - all this is going to work out for you. And your baby will tell
everybody how tough his or her mother was.

posted by FreeManWalking on September 6, 2007 at 6:02 AM | link to this | reply

You have been in my thoughts. Hope that things get better for you.
Take care.
Roses from me and Bo =^..^= the wonder dog!

posted by Whacky on September 5, 2007 at 8:42 PM | link to this | reply

I had a child 10 years ago this month- hard pregnancy-I was only 23 -single
It was the most difficult time of my life but the most joyous time followed when I saw her! It is funny how the most precious things in life come through so much pain and you look back and you think it was all worth it. And you think I would not want it any other way. That hindsite it smart, if only we could remember that things always work out for the best in our dark moments. Then again without the dark how would we appredciate the light?

posted by heartworms on September 5, 2007 at 4:42 PM | link to this | reply

MiaElla
It will all be worthwhile. BTW, Fathers, or I should say Daddy's don't have it as easy as you think. Granted, the woman does the carrying of the child and suffers greatly, but a Dad has his job to do as well. Anyone can "father" a child, it takes a real man to be a daddy

posted by Tattered_Knight on September 5, 2007 at 3:38 PM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry that what should be a joyous occasion is so hard for you.  If we lived in the same city, I'd just mobe my Mom in with you to help you take care of the baby, and to pay a little room and board with her social security!  (She can't find a job and lives with my sister and brother in law

posted by Holy_Grail on September 5, 2007 at 3:30 PM | link to this | reply

posted by lovelyladymonk on September 5, 2007 at 12:14 PM | link to this | reply

looking forward to the dreams; staying tuned...

posted by FineYoungSinger on September 5, 2007 at 12:00 PM | link to this | reply

I am so sorry for your tribulations

posted by le_divorcee on September 5, 2007 at 11:59 AM | link to this | reply

Wow, it's going to be such an event on blogit when you have this baby!

posted by telemachus on September 5, 2007 at 10:44 AM | link to this | reply

Mia
You need friends now... Call someone you haven't seen in a while but had a tender connection with and renew it.  Most people have it in them to be compassionate and even helpful during difficult times. 

posted by Troosha on September 5, 2007 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

posted by riri0322 on September 5, 2007 at 10:39 AM | link to this | reply

Troosha
Maybe that's what I should do. Thank you for sharing that with me.

posted by MiaElla on September 5, 2007 at 10:33 AM | link to this | reply

Mia
Although I didn't go through my pregnancy alone, a year later I became a single parent.  It's important to create a support system of some nature.  In my case, given my family lived miles and miles away, a created an extended family with a few girlfriends.  I couldn't have made it through juggling work, being a mother, being me, and making ends meet without the laughter and support of those friends. 

posted by Troosha on September 5, 2007 at 10:32 AM | link to this | reply