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Le
I can relate...You see I started reading Lustorlove and she gave me the idea of naming said toys...Soon they were my favorite playmates..LOL
posted by
Offy
on August 31, 2007 at 8:14 AM
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Offy
Toys, eh? Well, I am not at that level, but I might be after 4 years!
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 8:13 AM
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Shams-i-Heartsong
Perfect? Hmmm... not really.
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:55 AM
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afzal50
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:54 AM
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Straightforward
Well, this is the way I view it. I don't know how effective it will be
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:52 AM
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I find my toys came in handly during my 4 years of life without sex...
posted by
Offy
on August 31, 2007 at 6:51 AM
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cpklapper
I hope I can find a true partner one day. Thank you for your words, they were very touching.
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:49 AM
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riri0322
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:48 AM
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RaeS
Yes, I have done some hands on female sexuality research. Thanks for the suggestion, LOL.
Well, Run at dawn has a profile but no blogs. There are some similarities... interesting.
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:47 AM
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Ariala
Fortunatedly, I never had that problem
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 31, 2007 at 6:44 AM
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Perhaps it is now time to remind yourself that it is All Perfect
posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on August 31, 2007 at 5:35 AM
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posted by
afzal50
on August 31, 2007 at 12:01 AM
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Interesting that you see blogit as a therapy
Notions of therapy are indeed changing...
posted by
Straightforward
on August 30, 2007 at 9:37 PM
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Back to the subject
Yes. One of the crappiest things about divorce is the cessation of sex. Just before the divorce and for years afterwards for those of us with scruples and old school romantic notions.
I have come understand, after a lot of heartbreak, that we are led to our true loves and partners rather than choosing them ourselves by some cold-hearted calculation of compatibility, the convenience of old friends or the accidents of lust. In my case, though I consider the love of my life the sexiest woman alive and I practically melt every time I see her face, watch her walk or hear her talk, what sealed the matter for me is that I felt like there were big neon signs flashing everywhere saying "THIS IS THE ONE! THIS IS THE ONE!" The first sign had to do with her name and that of my first two wives, which I didn't notice until I first found out her name from her computer and then I had to ask her in person to make sure it was right and I am sure I looked like an absolute moron doing so. It was just too weird to be a mere coincidence and there were more.
When one has the sense of destiny and providence at work, one can take some comfort that it is God, Who is LOVE, Who is calling the shots and leading you to a union of LOVE with another that is more ecstatic than sex and must, I believe, heighten its ecstasy.
My prayer is that God will lead you to someone for whom you feel the same powerful, ecstatic love that I feel now for my beloved.
Carl Peter
posted by
cpklapper
on August 30, 2007 at 8:49 PM
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posted by
riri0322
on August 30, 2007 at 8:22 PM
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This post adds to the similarities...:)
I don't know about your beliefs, Le Divorce, but surely it couldn't hurt to do some reading or research on female sexuality? Or maybe that's not necessary..trying to be delicate here, lol. 
Runs At Dawn!! That was the other blogger's name! Or her first one, anyway. I wonder if her old blogs are still here?
posted by
Katray2
on August 30, 2007 at 8:05 PM
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Yes, a vowel can make ALL the difference in all the world (especially if
you speak the wrong name at the wrong time!)
LOL
posted by
Ariala
on August 30, 2007 at 8:00 PM
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Ariala
These rummors going around are just ghastly.
Don't you think? I mean, the difference between Tom and Tim is huge!
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:58 PM
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uh huh, okay! Sorry, I thought you might be her! Welcome to Blogit!
posted by
Ariala
on August 30, 2007 at 7:52 PM
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TAPS.
Yeah, everyone seems quite crazy around here...
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:51 PM
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Ariala
Well, I am from South America, but I married a Tim, not a Tom.
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:51 PM
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TAPS, what was that blogger's name? Young pretty girl from South America
who was getting married to Tom. LOL
posted by
Ariala
on August 30, 2007 at 7:36 PM
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Le_d
She's been spreading turkey around today, now she's talking about one who married a Tom. LOL
posted by
TAPS.
on August 30, 2007 at 7:33 PM
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TAPS.
Turkey?
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:30 PM
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Soul_Builder101
Well, it sucks... It really really really sucks. How mature was that? LOL
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:30 PM
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Ariala, c/o Le_divorce
Are you talking turkey again?
posted by
TAPS.
on August 30, 2007 at 7:29 PM
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Le D.............
I also am divorced! Sometimes you got to shrug your shoulders and say....that's life!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on August 30, 2007 at 7:29 PM
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Ariala
Gosh, that sounds fascinating. I would love to meet this "virgin"... LOL
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:23 PM
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She married a Tom, if I remember right and had a couple of different
names here on Blogit...Virgin might have been in it, but darn it, my memory is very bad! LOL
posted by
Ariala
on August 30, 2007 at 7:18 PM
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Interesting... second bogger who says that to me.
Who is this person I resemble, then?
posted by
le_divorcee
on August 30, 2007 at 7:17 PM
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Hey, I recognize you...but I'll say nada
posted by
Ariala
on August 30, 2007 at 7:16 PM
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