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TAPS
when I have had money in the past and many knew that they asked for money and promised to pay me back one did they other one didnt.  It seems they pay back someone else before me as I am a giver and not a taker

posted by Lanetay on August 18, 2007 at 10:52 AM | link to this | reply

lustorlove
It is sad, but it seems that borrowers never pay back.  It also seems that borrowers are never loaners or givers.  They just seem to exist off of other people.   It is good to remember that and give as a gift with no expectation of getting it back.  I don't know why it has to be that way.

posted by TAPS. on August 18, 2007 at 10:43 AM | link to this | reply

TAPS
People take an advantage of my kind heart.  I have had people borrow money from me or use a service I have and never return that to me.  Right now my daughter is out of work and I cant afford to pay her car payment, now her she wouldnt mind asking someone to help her, but not me.  When my parents gave me anything after I was out on my own it was because they knew I needed it not because I asked.

posted by Lanetay on August 18, 2007 at 10:30 AM | link to this | reply

lustorlove
I've always been very independent and would rather bite my tongue off than ask for anything.  I'm not a borrower, I'd rather do without.  On the other hand, I do not feel disgruntled about helping anyone else who needs it.   Though I've never had to ask them for anything, I have a feeling that if/when I get to the point where I cannot take care of myself, my sons will step in to do what is needed.

posted by TAPS. on August 18, 2007 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

Living_Life_Large
just take some longer to learn who they are

posted by Lanetay on August 18, 2007 at 9:37 AM | link to this | reply

We are who we think we are.

posted by Living_Life_Large on August 18, 2007 at 9:02 AM | link to this | reply

Enigmatic68
good person to trust

posted by Lanetay on August 18, 2007 at 8:56 AM | link to this | reply

lustorlove
I trust myself.

posted by Enigmatic68 on August 18, 2007 at 4:03 AM | link to this | reply

Cameraeye
Karma is what it is all about

posted by Lanetay on August 17, 2007 at 10:18 PM | link to this | reply

Lustorlove

Sometimes it seems we are alone in a crowd. Sometimes the crowd is talking to us and sometimes they aren't. All I think about is the way justify the end.  Be nice and guess what, you win in the end.  The other people probably will not do so well.  Just watch the events as they go by.

Cheers to you,

Lou

posted by Cameraeye on August 17, 2007 at 10:06 PM | link to this | reply