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Re: Flappergirl...first of all welcome! And second of all, I know where you're

I am glad that my post moved you . . . yet I am sorry if my post moved you because you too have experienced this.

BTW, took a look at your post - love it.

posted by flappergirl on August 17, 2007 at 4:13 AM | link to this | reply

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Thanks.

posted by flappergirl on August 17, 2007 at 4:10 AM | link to this | reply

posted by afzal50 on August 17, 2007 at 12:00 AM | link to this | reply

Flappergirl...first of all welcome! And second of all, I know where you're
coming from.  Your words brought tears to my eyes, because I just know.  Again welcome, I like your stories....

posted by ladyofshalott on August 16, 2007 at 6:11 PM | link to this | reply

Re: There is a decision to be made here, flappergirl. You need to decide if
Very well put. I am staying, that much I have decided. Thanks for reading and watch for my next post.

posted by flappergirl on August 16, 2007 at 11:55 AM | link to this | reply

There is a decision to be made here, flappergirl. You need to decide if
your love is greater than your feelings of mistrust, betrayal and resentment.  Then you have to work through those feelings, attempting to eliminate them.  Even if you ultimately decide to leave him, you still need to work on the elimination (or at least the alleviation of and coping with) of these feelings.  You cannot let them dominate your thoughts and actions.  As you've stated, they will consume you. Good luck and take care...

posted by saul_relative on August 16, 2007 at 11:51 AM | link to this | reply

Re: flappergirl
You think you know. I always said if he ever cheated I was outta there . . . but the sad truth is that you just do not know, until it happens to you.

posted by flappergirl on August 16, 2007 at 10:44 AM | link to this | reply

flappergirl
My wife and I have never seriously discussed the subject, but we both know if either of us cheated, that would spell the end. There's no right or wrong way to deal with something as troubling as this.

posted by Talion on August 16, 2007 at 9:05 AM | link to this | reply

OK! The narrative tone. Let's see if we can catch the wave, literally,
lol....

posted by WindTapper on August 16, 2007 at 8:30 AM | link to this | reply