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Re: Re: La_Paloma
no you are wrong he got in touch with me tonight and he has been very sick and he isnt a taker he has given me more than most, he is a sweetheart
posted by
Lanetay
on August 1, 2007 at 9:47 PM
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Re: La_Paloma
lustorlove
Exactly that's what you should do. You've done your best. You've let him know how you feel about him. You've done whatever you should do. It's enough. More than enough. Please don't let other hurt you. You deserve better, really, my dear.
If he's in the hospital, someone, his relative or whoever should be there. If he wants you to be there with him, don't you think that he already given you some response.
Can you think of a reason for a man why he didn't response to you after all the emails? Why is he so selfish? Take and take but not give? Do you want this kind of man in your life? You give but he just takes? How long can you do that? 1 year? 5 years? 10 years? The rest of your life? Do you see a point worth for you to do that?
Yes, you're obviously into him. But, think about it. Is he worth your time and efforts? I can tell you my story. Let me have your email address. I can let you have my story, recently. I've moved on! NEXT! that's what you should do before you get hurt even worse!
You absolutely deserve someone better. Trust me.
Love
posted by
La_Paloma
on August 1, 2007 at 9:32 PM
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I agree with Troosha...God luck dear friend
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posted by
ILLUMINATI8
on August 1, 2007 at 2:52 PM
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Troosha
ok that makes sense if he wasn't a different situation as he is in a great deal of pain physcially and this pain causes him mental pain. I spoke with a woman with the same illness he has and she says there are days at a time she doesn't get out of bed. Its Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, so he is always tired. I am not making excuses for him but just trying to understand his illness
posted by
Lanetay
on August 1, 2007 at 12:45 PM
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Lustor
If someone is not returning your calls or replying to your emails it's time (I regret to say) to move on or at least not wait around for him any more. He may resurface with a perfectly logical explanation but in the interim, get on out there and enjoy some other men.
posted by
Troosha
on August 1, 2007 at 10:26 AM
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justanotherskinnybitch
see I feel guilty when I think of moving on, there are other guys that have sent me emails that I just ignored, because I was into him, now he isnt into me, should I come out and ask him?
posted by
Lanetay
on August 1, 2007 at 6:14 AM
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La_Paloma
ok so I say to hell with him and he is really that sick, he told me he is really sick and that was a week ago I talked to him and another email telling me he was still sick, I dont know what to do, I have comfort him with emails and he told me that brightened his day, now I get no response, maybe he is in the hospital or something
posted by
Lanetay
on August 1, 2007 at 6:12 AM
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"He's just not that in to you" Berger SATC
"when a guy's really into you he's coming upstairs."
posted by
justanotherskinnybitch
on August 1, 2007 at 4:34 AM
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lustorlove
I'm sorry if this offends you but a friend should be honest. Please do not give any excuse to yourself to forgive him. If he wants to call you, he'll do it. If he likes you, he'll come to you. If he's sick, he'll want to see you.
Don't let anything or any chance to let others hurt you. Protect yourself and love yourself first, before loving others. Learn to love yourself first.
Please be strong and don't think any excuse for him not calling you. If he has time to eat, watch tv, then, he's not busy or sick. If he's very sick he won't be able to get up from his bed!
Please be strong and positive. I'll be here for you...
Cheers
posted by
La_Paloma
on July 31, 2007 at 10:59 PM
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Whacky
but my heart has been wrong too many times, its arguing with my mind
posted by
Lanetay
on July 31, 2007 at 10:21 PM
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Do what your heart tells you.
Smiles
and roses
from me and Bo =^..^= the wonder dog!!
posted by
Whacky
on July 31, 2007 at 10:06 PM
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FoliageGold
so what my guts are telling me he used me and threw me away but not totally as he keeps me hanging in there using his illness as the crutch or am I am wrong about this? I am going to feel bad if he is really terrible sick though
posted by
Lanetay
on July 31, 2007 at 9:52 PM
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Lilanne - Sweet lady. We've talked before about this before. Stand tall.
I don't know him, you do. But go by your gut feelings. They are speaking to you or you wouldn't have written this post.
posted by
FoliageGold
on July 31, 2007 at 9:40 PM
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