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                    I can quite understand this...even though I have not been through the
                
                same experience, but have been attempted to be cornered in other respects...
                
                    posted by
                    Straightforward
                     on July 11, 2007 at 6:31 PM
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                    I agree...
                
                     Its truely amazing how the moments in our past will continue to pose a problem in our current lives. It works the same for any number of people for any number of problems or causes of effect. I wish I had an answer that could give you some relief, but I don't. If I knew that answer...many of my own problems would no longer be problems. Admitting that something still bothers you is a step in dealing with it. Far to many people have told me that they got over something a long time ago...then they bring it up again, and again, and again...saying that thy got over it. To come up so often makes it obvious that they never did get over it...they just try to tell themselves that they did. That fails to solve the problem. With time and growing wisdom...perhaps you will learn, as all of us hopefully will, to deal with or accept things and find it in yourself to no longer allow it to bother you. I hope that you, others like you, and myself...find the answer we all need to dealing with those moments from our past that keep coming back to us.....
                
                    posted by
                    gavelkorbald
                     on July 11, 2007 at 12:24 AM
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                    I agree with your concluding sentence . 
                
                
                
                    posted by
                    afzal50
                     on July 10, 2007 at 11:11 PM
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                    Old fears can be just as devastating as anything new, particularly since 
                
                they have had time to manifest...nothing you don't already know, obviously. Great post.
 
                
                    posted by
                    teddypoet_TheGoodByeFade
                     on July 10, 2007 at 11:02 PM
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