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Spitfire, Where and how are you now? Thinking of you.
posted by
TAPS.
on July 14, 2007 at 12:39 PM
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hang in there...
thinking about you guys lately. Hope all is well!
posted by
superflymom119
on July 12, 2007 at 10:30 AM
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Damn
Talk about a hard time... I hope you have figured something out and things are getting better. At least you are not some place hotter while you are very pregnant! Heat is really nasty when you are... And, you have some time with your husband before the baby comes (after which, life will never be the same again.) Take care of yourself!

posted by
FactorFiction
on June 29, 2007 at 6:09 AM
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Is it schizophrenia or multiple personality syndrome? Just kidding.

I've had some terrible runs of luck over the years myself, so I can empathize. Of course, my terrible luck was all my fault, directly and indirectly unlike yours. So I guess it isn't bad luck for me, just poor life choices. But I still empathize. It's not such a great feeling having things looking as if their aligned against you on an uphill slant.
posted by
saul_relative
on June 28, 2007 at 10:07 AM
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Take Care
I am missing you...
posted by
_Symphony_
on June 18, 2007 at 2:05 PM
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Just checking in to see if you had posted and hoping things are getting better for you! Take care.
posted by
Offy
on June 3, 2007 at 8:00 PM
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Life is an interesting journey, isn't it?
posted by
trisha4005
on June 2, 2007 at 11:07 PM
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holy crap... it's all I can say.
WTF is wrong with life? Can nothing ever be easy?
Well, I heard the sarcasm in your tale, so I hope you're keeping that sense of humor about things... geesh. Can M find work in Oregon doing something different? If you like where you are... maybe it would be easier to start a new business or career than to follow one that keeps closing on you? or maybe I just hate moving.
posted by
-blackcat
on May 30, 2007 at 9:06 PM
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wow--
it has been a difficult journey for you and now this must seem like the icing on the cake. I know that when your life seems to be going to "pot" it's hard to believe everything happens for a reason, and yet I do think it does. So, it will all work itself out, you'll make the right decisions and later, you might even look back and laugh at how crazy life was then. I'll be thinking of you and praying for you.
posted by
Julia.
on May 29, 2007 at 11:05 AM
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posted by
riri0322
on May 29, 2007 at 10:58 AM
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One hates to fall back on a really annoying cliche, Young Miss,
but it will work out.
I know, I know, I'm too far away for you to actually bat me upside the head for that. But I don't think you were an evil persona in your past life; I just think it's your turn in the barrel, and this soon will pass -- like a kidney stone, of course -- and bring ya'll ionto something better than you could have imagined.
In the meantime, start writing that screenplay. This sort of thing makes millions!
Take care!
posted by
strat
on May 29, 2007 at 6:39 AM
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I hope that things will work out for you!
Take care.
posted by
Whacky
on May 28, 2007 at 9:18 PM
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All I can do is send my love, and hope that something good is just around the corner for you.
No platitiudes like "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger." Though I guess there is some truth to that!
On an unrelated topic, I dreamt last night that Gail had tried to tell me in a dream who killed her. I don't put much stock into it since I only get a little smatterin of that "gift" from time to time. sTill, I almost feel like I should say something, But who would listen?l
posted by
Holy_Grail
on May 28, 2007 at 8:36 PM
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Hey little mama...
Nothing would please me more than to wave a magic wand and make all the negative go away for you and M.

You have your charm and sarcastic wit about you, which tells me you'll be fine. You're a survivor!
posted by
---Masky---
on May 28, 2007 at 9:59 AM
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It's like Murphy's Law is being played out in every area of your life..I am so sorry. The whole situation just sucks..I wish I had an answer for you...
posted by
Offy
on May 27, 2007 at 9:04 PM
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Spitfire
Honey the little one is coming into the world and I can't tell you what to do but I am going to pray for you. You have let me before. This can all be changed i a blink of an eye. I am sorry you are going through so much. Be blessed.
posted by
Justi
on May 27, 2007 at 8:46 PM
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My goodness, Spitfire
How can so many things go wrong with one person in such a short amount of time. On the other hand I don't think I want to find out the answer to that question. I've always known you were a strong person but this is testing it just a little bit much I would say. All I can do is pray for you and yours that the answers will start coming quickly and that they will be answers that you like.
posted by
TAPS.
on May 27, 2007 at 8:32 PM
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Thanks Sunny...and your comments really DO help!
I can use all the advise and words of wisdom I can get! Maybe it would be better to wait til she's born. My only other dilemma is having enough room in the car for all of us! Yeeks!
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 27, 2007 at 7:51 PM
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Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this.
When it rains, it pours. I don't know what to tell you. I don't know what I would want to do if it was me...but I can tell you that being pregnant and such a long car trip doesn't sound fun to me...especially in the heat.
Also, having an infant in the car may not be as bad as you anticipate. Car rides can be quite soothing to them and you... considering that you may otherwise be lacking a lot of sleep due to long nights.
I hope that the two of you make the best decision possible, or maybe some better option becomes available to you. Blessings. 

posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on May 27, 2007 at 7:42 PM
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Bandanafish, that's a great way to say it!
And it sure does, you're so right!
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 27, 2007 at 7:36 PM
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Thanks, Shelly. Me too!!
posted by
SpitFire70
on May 27, 2007 at 7:35 PM
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This is really overwhelming. I hope things will get better soon.
This post reminds me of State Farm Insurance: "Life comes at you fast." Boy, doesn't it! Hang it there.
posted by
bandanafish
on May 27, 2007 at 7:26 PM
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Oh geez...I'm so sorry this is happening...
I hope things for you will get better.
posted by
shelly_b
on May 27, 2007 at 7:20 PM
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