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But if you crave love for a father who was absent or abusive to you and you make love to someone different every night in search of that need, I suppose that is addiction. I don't think the chemical PK makes a distinction. It is the "hedonistic" way to examine relationships, perhaps. I used to say you could tell "the one" because it was the person you couldn't live without. It's addiction under a different name. There is only love or fear, the two human emotions. I think everyone craves love, to feel good and they want to reciprocate in like. If two people are in such a wildly romantic love affair such as Joycie and John ("Wiley") were and it carries them into marriage, monogamy, it isn't a bad thing, except when death claims one before the other. I would rather have experienced this intensity if only for a short time than to have passed it by. But alas, it has become one-sided. And I am actually trying to kick the habit and concentrate on the reciprocating partner.
LadyCeeMarie
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LadyCeeMarie
on April 28, 2007 at 11:06 PM
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Hi Lustorlove-
But is he addicted to you? I've found only heartache in one-sided addiction. Wiley and his Joycie were in double addiction and he suffers from her loss 10 years hence. I used to cry, anticipating the time when it would all be over and he'd say, not for a long long time. Trust me...... Yeah, he was a dickhead after all, but giving up that feeling is about as easy as losing weight. i.e., next to impossible!
LadyCeeMarie
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LadyCeeMarie
on April 28, 2007 at 10:27 PM
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LadyCee
it's difficult to draw a line between addiction and love depending on one's definition of love. I feel addiction grows out of love or even the crave for it. Meaning to say, if you crave for love, then you're addicted to love.
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richinstore
on April 28, 2007 at 7:19 PM
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I have been addicted to a certain man way over a year and as he comes into my life he brings me much pleasure but then as I am at the heights of his pleasure he makes a smooth break. I dont know if its love on my end but its just lust on his and he is not waiting to hear from me like I am from him. I thought I had made a clean break from him but I weakened and contacted him again and he said he wanted to see me last night and then he gets sick and I don't know it until after four pm. I have to wash that man out of my hair or I am going to go nuts. Right now I am thinking about him and how much fun we talked about having.
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Lanetay
on April 28, 2007 at 10:02 AM
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Hi Discombob-
I thought my daughter would have seen the humor in it, but she didn't. She's never forgiven this "sin" of mine. Good to have you read this and understand.
Cee
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LadyCeeMarie
on April 27, 2007 at 3:58 PM
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Well you know my history so you know that I can relate to this!
And it's nice to see you around my little corner of Blogit again, been wondering about you.
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Discombobulated78
on April 27, 2007 at 3:14 PM
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snubnose
I am SO glad I'm not alone! It's a wonderful feeling to be in love, isn't it!
LadyCee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on April 25, 2007 at 10:34 AM
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Lady
I am addicted too!!! O'lord I'm a Junkie!!
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snubnose
on April 25, 2007 at 10:11 AM
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Lady
I am addicted too!!! O'lord I'm a Junkie!!
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snubnose
on April 25, 2007 at 10:11 AM
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